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Why is closure that important ?


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Hello all,

 

Just a little background. We had a long distance casual relation for the last six months. Both of us wanted this to happen and during this time we grow very close to each other. Maybe too much. I texted him ten days ago. I never got a reply. He was the one sending the "someone is no replying my emails" if i didn't reply in 24 hours but i cannot text him again. I like him too much to afford the rejection.

 

I cannot stop thinking about him. What could happen ? What did i do wrong ? What if he comes back ? I cannot stop wonder why shy away, didn't i deserve more than that ? Everyday i hope he would contact me and i am feeling more and more disappointed. I feel abandoned, used and hurt and i guess that if he had told me i could move on. I didn't expect this from him so now i also wondering is everything else was just in my imagination.

 

Why does closure seem to be so important ? Do you also need to know why ? Do you look for closure or just accept that he do not care enough to say good bye ?

 

Thanks for your comments !

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