JTMCMG Posted October 6, 2010 Posted October 6, 2010 This is a typical question. Yes, how do I go upon telling her I like her? Heres the story. So theres this girl Ive known since I was I dont even know how old. I know her as far back as I remember being like 5 and were both 20 now. Her parents are close family friends of my aunts and uncles so thats why I know her. As far back as I do recall, Ive always had a lot of interest in this girl but I never developed balls to tell her because for one, I always get extremely shy whenever shes at family parties and such. And I never get shy like that, shes the only one thats capable of making me feel that way. And recently, I just saw her for the first time in at least a year or 2 and shes single. After talking to her this time, I wasnt quite as shy or nervous. But she invited me to come play some game with her family and a few of my family members when they get together again. Now my problem is where do I go from here in terms omf telling her I like her? Any feedback appreciated! Thanks.
Sabali Posted October 6, 2010 Posted October 6, 2010 "Now my problem is where do I go from here in terms of telling her I like her?" You don't have a problem here. The answer is simple. You DON"T tell her you like her. Unless you want to send her running to the far reaches of the universe don't go around her confessing your undying love. You ain't Romeo and she ain't Juliet. This is real world stuff here, baby boy. You are going to be all about action. You are going to ask her out. You take her out for a really great time. Don't take her to the boring @$$ movies. Take her on a really fun date. She knows you and you know her so you can be yourself. Relax. Let her get used to the idea of being on a date with you. Once that date is over, give her a kiss on the cheek, let some time pass and give her time to think about things. Call her up later and ask her out again. At the end of that date, give her a kiss on the lips at the end of the date. Her reaction will let you know every thing you need to know and you won't be trapped by the whole "I like you" phrase that would have set you up if you would have said it. But you won't say it. Right? Ask her out today.
Author JTMCMG Posted October 7, 2010 Author Posted October 7, 2010 Well I do like the sound of what you said. Now that I think about it, I really should show it. I have heard of girls being scared away when someone says things to them, but I wasn't prepared to confess my love for her or anything like that. But anyway, when I see her again I'm gonna ask her to go out and get ice cream or something. I'll work on a crafty date idea until then but yea, thanks for that input.
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