elaina Posted October 6, 2010 Posted October 6, 2010 Hello, I had a discovery the other day and considered telling my boyfriend, but then the filter in my brain said no. The revelation is that if I marry him, my initials stay the same yeah!!! Don't laugh, I don't normally pair up my name with a guy's last name until further down the road... I'm not in high school anymore. Anyways, I need guys' opinions. My male friends get a sort of cornered, deer in the headlights look if a girl talks about marriage or marriagy stuff like taking his last name too soon. So, it is good that my brain filter said not to share this happy thought with him, seeing as we have only been together for 4 months? What are other things that would be advisable for women not to share during the first year? By the way, he knows I only date men I consider to be "marriagable." Thanks!
Author elaina Posted October 6, 2010 Author Posted October 6, 2010 Thank god for that little "male filter" in your brain. Most guys would probably be bothered by that comment. Lol. That's what I thought. I still think its high school-ish that you think that way. True. I'm still a kid at heart though...but yeah I admit I'm not 100% mature yet. Who the hell cares about names? Well, I don't normally, though yes in high school it was one thing that my GIRL friends and I did, draw hearts and write our first names in cursive with the last name of the guy we liked. It's a part of some women's "happily-ever-after dream", I think. My initials now spell a word which is special and cool to me, so I just thought it was cool when I realized that IF we get married, I'd keep my initials. It's not a dealbreaker or anything important though if I don't keep my initials. It was just a happy (though I admit highschoolish) thought. but of course, this is whats its like to be a fly on the wall in the world of most women. ?
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