e.clipse Posted October 6, 2010 Posted October 6, 2010 (edited) i am. i've noticed a pattern i've developed with all the guys i date/see/hang out with/talk to, and it isn't a good one. when i first meet a guy i am interested in (for whatever reason), i get all happy and excited. i think to myself: "Ah, finally! I'm making progress!" as i get to know them, i look forward to it. every new guy i meet seems to offer me something different, and i like paying attention to them--to what they have to say. and, eventually, they seem to get hooked: they call/text me more regularly, want to make "plans"/dates for us to hang out, get to know me more... and that is when i cease all communication from my part, without as much as an explanation for why i no longer wish to have anything to do with them. but, truly, what can i say when i don't know what to say? this same thing is happening now with this one guy, Matt. we were (very) casually talking/seeing each other this past month and a half. at first, i was really excited because i had a big crush on him because he is soOoOoOoOo CUTE!!! personally, i think he is so hot!! YUM! so! when he finally noticed me, i was stoked. but now, well... he texted me again. i have the message in my inbox, but i have no intention of writing back. ever. it's over. he is still just as cute. he is still just as interesting, if not more. and i am still interested. but i'd rather not bother anymore. this is getting ridiculous. and i feel like such a bitch because i feel as though i am leading guys on or something. wah, wah, wah. Edited October 6, 2010 by e.clipse
Fouts Posted October 6, 2010 Posted October 6, 2010 You enjoy the chase and get bored easily. It's not uncommon behavior, so don't feel like your odd because of it.
Jambalaya Posted October 6, 2010 Posted October 6, 2010 Try to lessen the sensation of jerkosity and at least tell them that you aren't going to see/communicate with them any more.
elaina Posted October 6, 2010 Posted October 6, 2010 this is getting ridiculous. and i feel like such a bitch because i feel as though i am leading guys on or something. . Do you feel no strong connection? Have you been hurt in the past? Do you still love a former boyfriend? Sorry for being nosy, but am wondering if there is any reason that might be the cause of the loss of interest before things get serious?
Serenitynow Posted October 6, 2010 Posted October 6, 2010 eventually, they seem to get hooked: they call/text me more regularly, want to make "plans"/dates for us to hang out, get to know me more... and that is when i cease all communication from my part, without as much as an explanation for why i no longer wish to have anything to do with them. EVERYONE PLEASE TAKE NOTE : The above admission is EXACTLY what guys are talking about when we ask, why do women lead us on, or why do they play hard to get. Finally, a female has admitted to doing it. Or maybe someone is holding a gun to her head forcing her to spill the beans
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