Woggle Posted October 6, 2010 Posted October 6, 2010 You seriously let her pay? Between marriages I don't think I paid for one date or if I did it was very cheap. They always paid their own way.
Star Gazer Posted October 6, 2010 Posted October 6, 2010 LOVE THIS!!! Honestly, I think that the guys who complain about having to ask girls out and having to pay for the first date are just LAZY. Sometimes the old-fashioned way really is the best way. And the door thing? Give me a freaking break, guys!!! I can honestly count on one hand the number of times I've opened my own car door when I was with my boyfriend. And we've been together for a year. His father still opens ALL doors for his mother and they have been married for 41 years. Sh*t....if I was with a guy who thought he was making some kind of "equality" statement by refusing to open a door for me, he probably wouldn't even see me on the other side of the door because I'd be gone so fast! So true! Even my old jerk-of-a-boss opened the car door for me! Nothing better than an old-fashioned gentleman!! If only the "equality boys" (yes, boys) knew just how hot and bothered and RAWR! we quality ladies get over a wee bit of chivalry...
skydiveaddict Posted October 6, 2010 Posted October 6, 2010 Lol, old-fashioned people are funny. But not cheap
Mad Max Posted October 6, 2010 Posted October 6, 2010 You seriously let her pay? Yes and none of them had any qualms about doing so. Go figure!
Mad Max Posted October 6, 2010 Posted October 6, 2010 So true! Even my old jerk-of-a-boss opened the car door for me! Nothing better than an old-fashioned gentleman!! If only the "equality boys" (yes, boys) knew just how hot and bothered and RAWR! we quality ladies get over a wee bit of chivalry... If we're boys, then women that ask men out, pay, propose, and don't abide by your way of thinking are not women, but girls.
skydiveaddict Posted October 6, 2010 Posted October 6, 2010 So true! Even my old jerk-of-a-boss opened the car door for me! Nothing better than an old-fashioned gentleman!! If only the "equality boys" (yes, boys) knew just how hot and bothered and RAWR! we quality ladies get over a wee bit of chivalry... Point proven
Star Gazer Posted October 6, 2010 Posted October 6, 2010 Yes and none of them had any qualms about doing so. Go figure! That's what YOU think!!! She went home to her girlfriends and said, "Can you believe he let me pay!??" and they all said, "Ewwww! What a creep!" And even if she went out with you again, it's only because you're hot (in her eyes). You had an OG/SACWA on your hands!
Mad Max Posted October 6, 2010 Posted October 6, 2010 Lol, all these medieval people make just wanna save up and move to Sweden. I need to move to a more civilized society. :laugh: Brazil > Sweden
Woggle Posted October 6, 2010 Posted October 6, 2010 So true! Even my old jerk-of-a-boss opened the car door for me! Nothing better than an old-fashioned gentleman!! If only the "equality boys" (yes, boys) knew just how hot and bothered and RAWR! we quality ladies get over a wee bit of chivalry... Us men get turned on by the things women use to do for us as well but since they refuse to do those things anymore why should we adhere to our old gender roles?
Love&KissesXoXo Posted October 6, 2010 Posted October 6, 2010 I think men should always pay on the first date. I would be so turned off by it and never see him again.
skydiveaddict Posted October 6, 2010 Posted October 6, 2010 If we're boys, then women that ask men out, pay, propose, and don't abide by your way of thinking are not women, but girls. Are you going to ask your future wife to go dutch on her engagement ring as well?
Star Gazer Posted October 6, 2010 Posted October 6, 2010 Between marriages I don't think I paid for one date or if I did it was very cheap. They always paid their own way. Just because it happens doesn't mean it should, nor does it mean the women were all that thrilled about it. C'mon Woggle, even you know that you're not the best role model for faith in woman-kind.
Mad Max Posted October 6, 2010 Posted October 6, 2010 That's what YOU think!!! She went home to her girlfriends and said, "Can you believe he let me pay!??" and they all said, "Ewwww! What a creep!" And even if she went out with you again, it's only because you're hot (in her eyes). You had an OG/SACWA on your hands! Riiight. Keep telling yourself that. And most of them led to relationships, so I guess I'm such a creep if they wanted to be exclusive with me. But of course, you'll blame it on my looks.
ConflictedGuy27 Posted October 6, 2010 Posted October 6, 2010 If we're boys, then women that ask men out, pay, propose, and don't abide by your way of thinking are not women, but girls. lost all respect for you here. I had a bit of it up till now...
Mad Max Posted October 6, 2010 Posted October 6, 2010 Are you going to ask your future wife to go dutch on her engagement ring as well? No, I intend to pay for that. Your sarcastic attitude is a reflection on your character though.
Mad Max Posted October 6, 2010 Posted October 6, 2010 lost all respect for you here. I had a bit of it up till now... I'll be losing sleep tonight. Don't even know who the hell you are either.
bac Posted October 6, 2010 Posted October 6, 2010 Yeah, he did. And lunch was about $15 each.....This has never happened to me before to be honest. I don't want to be too harsh, but seriously dude? How old is he?
Woggle Posted October 6, 2010 Posted October 6, 2010 Just because it happens doesn't mean it should, nor does it mean the women were all that thrilled about it. C'mon Woggle, even you know that you're not the best role model for faith in woman-kind. If they were not thrilled about it why did get tons of action during that time and why did I have four women wanting to marry me. My friends who do the gentlemen thing are the ones who end up alone and get cheated on with men like me. I hear my female coworkers actually laugh at men who do the gentlemen thing as if they are the most pathetic beings on earth.
USMCHokie Posted October 6, 2010 Posted October 6, 2010 Riiight. Keep telling yourself that. And most of them led to relationships, so I guess I'm such a creep if they wanted to be exclusive with me. But of course, you'll blame it on my looks. Your sarcastic attitude is a reflection on your character though. ..........
skydiveaddict Posted October 6, 2010 Posted October 6, 2010 I think men should always pay on the first date. I would be so turned off by it and never see him again. Point proven again
Mad Max Posted October 6, 2010 Posted October 6, 2010 You know, some guys feel the need to throw money to get a woman because they know they dont have the looks and the personality. My grandpa was like that. Heavy gambler and thought he would impress women by waving the $$$.
dispatch3d Posted October 6, 2010 Posted October 6, 2010 meh most men have so little power in dating. I was talking to my roommate today about it. And we both agreed about the feedback loop that goes on. Basically, of the girls guys really chase, 95%+ of them are all looking for the same thing. Sorry, you aren't special. Pretty good tyler durden quote in here somewhere. Anyways, since all girls are looking for the same thing, this happens. You have to go on dates to get good at dating. There is literally no other way to do it. Now, if you have what those women want they ALL say yes (or most). So you always get positive feedback with what you do. Then you ask out more women because what you're doing is working, and voila you are awesome (cause you get dating experience) However, if you suck this isn't going to be very fun. You ask out a girl, get rejected. Another, rejected. Another, rejected. It's unlikely you'll fit into even 1/10 girls wants if you don't have what they want (this is a reality). So either you tough it out, get rejected a ton, get the dating knowledge, and bam you're in the first paragraph. Or, you don't bother and bam you giveup. Hence why guys are so bitter. Also why it (seems) like there is such a polarity between guys skills with women. Either they are really freaking good (players) or really terrible (chumps, afc, whatever the **** you want to call them). And a good portion of the players aren't messing around with dates to start. In the words of another friend, who is also incredibly good, who started a relationship with a girl he really liked... "Well, we basically just started off ****ing."
Mad Max Posted October 6, 2010 Posted October 6, 2010 Brazil is as medieval as the US in terms of dating culture. Equality between the sexes can only be found in Northern Europe. Women greatly outnumber men there. If I could, I'd move back to Canada.
sweetjasmine Posted October 6, 2010 Posted October 6, 2010 Brazil > Sweden If you're looking for a place where women pay for dates, then Brazil isn't exactly the place to go. Sorry.
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