alexlakeman Posted October 5, 2010 Posted October 5, 2010 Ladies, fat, skinny, anorexic, chubby, slightly above, etc .... JUST post some clear pics that show your figure, good or bad. NO sense in having a head shot only etc. If when the guy sees you, you look like a blimp. I have recently given the benifit of the doubt to women online and their pics. The first was last week, which I posted a link to her pics and discussed on here. Pics were well take, in strategic angles, etc. When we met, the amount of over weight was too much for me; not fat, just over weight. That would've been prevented if her pics were more clear. Example 2 - emailed someone from online to send me a full body shot. She only had a face shot, cute face . So she sends me an email back "I'm not a size 2, 4, 6...". Oh boy this wasn't a good sign lol. I get her pic today and she was a little chunky. Now I'm not even going to write back. It would be less painful for women to just post the full body pic (clear and current) and avoid a guy stop communicating with her. Ranting off.
Serenitynow Posted October 5, 2010 Posted October 5, 2010 When a women chooses "average" or "a few extra pounds", and she has only a face pic, guys usually will assume the worst. If I was a woman on a dating site, I would NEVER allow that label choice as the sole judgment of how I look. Women need to realize that they will have more success if they just be upfront and post good pics. If a woman is too insecure and unhappy with her body to post a pic, than how can she judge a guy for his opinion on it?
ezrajames Posted October 5, 2010 Posted October 5, 2010 Take her most attractive picture and her least attractive picture, and round down... If it's just a head shot, she's usually hiding something at least 85% of the time, but don't give up every time, as some girls are just a bit shy. Also - try to get her Facebook URL by offering yours, and telling her to add you. Then you can look through potentially hundreds of her photos.
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