gorgeous12 Posted October 4, 2010 Posted October 4, 2010 So i have been casually seeing this guy for about 2 years now on and off ( we were never official). Him and his ex dated 4 years ago for 2 years and he has not had a girlfriend since her. They remained good friends after the break up even though this girl cheated on him with his best friend and went out with him for 2 years. Well him and the ex got back together about a month ago. and i had to find out through facebook. I have no confronted him about it or spoken to him about it at all since nor have i seen him. However I am very hurt and still not over him at all. I had a feeling that he was still in love with her the whole time I was seeing him but never questioned anything and now i feel like such a fool. I'm happy that he got what he wanted but think that I deserved an explanation or something and not just the cold shoulder. In the back of my mind I hope that things don't work out and he comes back to me. This is the first guy I actually opened up to and now im completely crushed still. How do I get through this?
Knittress Posted October 4, 2010 Posted October 4, 2010 Ouch! Don't think there's anything I could say that would make this feel better. ::thinks:: Nope. Sorry. I'd totally feel the same way though, which is why I refuse to do casual. Perhaps the best course of action would be to cry/wallow briefly and then go out and find someone who will actually reciprocate.
HopeLove Posted October 4, 2010 Posted October 4, 2010 Some people from the "sencond chances" forum would love to hear that second chances exist. Unfortunatelly you are on the wrong side. If after all the time we "were together" he was still in love with his ex and never wanted to be officially with you and he was never really into you. Don't waste more time in someone that doesn't deserve you and date someone that is really into you and you both be in love. Turn page and be happy. Be strong. It will get better. "Every relationship you ever have won't work out... until you find the one that does. And when you do find "the one", the difference between that relationship and the others you've had before will be profound beyond belief".
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