PreciousPrincess Posted October 4, 2010 Posted October 4, 2010 (edited) I don't understand what's the deal with spouses showing up unexpected in your house? My boyfriend has never done this until yesterday and I was like ''What the hell are you doing here, couldn't you have call me and let me know in advance, weren't you suppose to be working? I haven't even taken a shower and my hair was a total mess. I'm still a bit annoyed about it. Turns out they all got dismissed earlier than usual but still, he could have call me. I don't like unexpected visits. Edited October 4, 2010 by PreciousPrincess
CrestfallenNoMore Posted October 4, 2010 Posted October 4, 2010 Well, if your goal was to teach him never to surprise you again, I'd say mission accomplished. Congratulations???
Angel1111 Posted October 4, 2010 Posted October 4, 2010 Lordy. What's the big deal? Do you think he'll never see you with your hair not fixed or not having had a shower? I think you overreacted big-time. I totally understand that you may not like friends or family just dropping by, but your bf? Really? Btw, why did you use the word 'spouse'? You wrote: "I don't understand what's the deal with spouses showing up unexpected in your house?" I'm assuming you meant bf's?
GooseChaser Posted October 4, 2010 Posted October 4, 2010 It's not like he's a stranger or something intruding in your house. He's your boyfriend. It's okay to fight once in a while, but don't be afraid of letting him see you when you're a mess. He loves you, and will still find you beautiful just the same, so you shouldn't blow up at them for seeing you in that state. You can bring it up to him if it bothers you, but it would be a good idea to keep your voice down.
Star Gazer Posted October 4, 2010 Posted October 4, 2010 Well, if your goal was to teach him never to surprise you again, I'd say mission accomplished. Congratulations??? So true! I really don't like surprises, particularly this type... so I understand your frustration, but the manner in which you actually reacted was out of line. Does he know you don't like surprises?
Author PreciousPrincess Posted October 4, 2010 Author Posted October 4, 2010 Thank you for the replies and yes I may have overreacted. He'd forgotten about this but I felt like calling and apologizing.
Author PreciousPrincess Posted October 4, 2010 Author Posted October 4, 2010 Does he know you don't like surprises? Since he was shocked by my reaction towards his surprise visit, I assume he didn't know about it.
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