SilentVoice Posted October 4, 2010 Posted October 4, 2010 Ok have been seeing this guy for a week. It got physical fast . I am not complaining, since it was my decision to have sex with him . He seemed like he would have been good ; so I said why not. Anywho had relations ;seen him like three times. This morning being the most recent. Ok, but I am really not interested in him anymore. We just had a weird text coversation. He is going away this week to his home country. So I probably won't see him for like two weeks. (I don't understand why someone will start dating someone knowing that they are going away). And for some odd reason he already hinted exclusivity. Well he asked me if I was with any one else. I said no(which is true) . He said I better not be. He would always ask if I am on other dates. Idk all of it was a huge turn off . Here is the conversation ME - " So what I am going to do for two weeks?" HIM - "U got something else you wanna hit when I am away" ME - "Hit?" HIM - "Hit it lol" HIM - "**** it" ME - "Is there anything I would to F$%K while you are away? Is that the question?" HIM- "Ya" ME - "You must really think all I think about is sex . I know there is people I would like to hang out with . You know outsie of a house." HIM - "Ok cool hang out and have fun" That was the end of the conversation. I don't plan to write him back. I have no reason to.Do I? Should I just leave it at this . I feel real shi++y something like this happening over text.
alexlakeman Posted October 4, 2010 Posted October 4, 2010 Forget the guy... next time her writes , send a text back " It was great meeting you, but I didn't feel the spark I was looking for.. Good luck".. That usually works for me when I send it out..
Author SilentVoice Posted October 4, 2010 Author Posted October 4, 2010 Forget the guy... next time her writes , send a text back " It was great meeting you, but I didn't feel the spark I was looking for.. Good luck".. That usually works for me when I send it out.. Sigh he is going to think I am a complete wack-o . How do I feel no spark(which I don't) and still have sex with him . Sigh. Yeah but I think I am going to write him off as a life lesson for myself. Plus he seems like he would end up being very controlling and jealous. Thanks for the reply.
EricaH329 Posted October 4, 2010 Posted October 4, 2010 Sigh he is going to think I am a complete wack-o . How do I feel no spark(which I don't) and still have sex with him . Sigh. Believe it or not, while sex can sometimes make things more complicated, it can also turn you off to a person if rushed. Even if it was good. Yeah but I think I am going to write him off as a life lesson for myself. Plus he seems like he would end up being very controlling and jealous. I was thinking the same thing when you wrote that he texted you, 'You better not be'. I had a boyfriend like that once. Utter disaster. Extremely controlling and possessive.
Author SilentVoice Posted October 4, 2010 Author Posted October 4, 2010 Believe it or not, while sex can sometimes make things more complicated, it can also turn you off to a person if rushed. Even if it was good. I was thinking the same thing when you wrote that he texted you, 'You better not be'. I had a boyfriend like that once. Utter disaster. Extremely controlling and possessive. The sex did make it complicated. Since I can't really step back after that. He hasn't called or text me since . I guess this is done. I feel a little torn up but I have no reason to. Sigh
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