jm36633 Posted October 3, 2010 Posted October 3, 2010 So I met this girl at college, she started to text me, and we would have some small talk and eventually we would almost talk everyday. She would text me good night and such... This went on for about two weeks. I asked her to breakfast one day and we had a great time, so about a week later we went to lunch, which we had a great time. Both times she would laugh and look like she was having a lot of fun. About a week later we went to a movie which she was laughing and having fun, and she would playfully touch me and push me around. She would always stare at me when I walked by or saw her somewhere. We would look each other in the eyes, then one of us would either start laughing or look away embarrassingly. She talked about how relationships ruin everything and was non committal because of previous issues... A few days afterwards I asked her if she wanted a relationship with me, which she replied to with a "no". And said that "it doesn't mean I don't like you". So I kind of avoided her, which pissed her off tremendously, and a few days later we became friends again. We continued to kinda flirt and tease each other, and she would playfully punch and hug me. She continued to text me and tell me good night and whatnot. One day she told me she was feeling a little depressed and I took her out, we bought some food and went to the park. She was laughing and holding me and having a great time. She would constantly text me, asking me how I was or where I was.. So about a week later she called me drunk and told me I was the sweetest guy ever... she could see it in my eyes. She said that I was adorable and hot... and kept going on how cool I was... I really like her but I'm considering moving on because I don't want to keep asking her if she wants a relationship and her saying no again. What to do? Thanks.
FryFish Posted October 3, 2010 Posted October 3, 2010 Dont ask for a relationship... She doesnt want the title, but she does want you. Dont expect much but a good autumn fling though. Next time you two are out and about... When you have one of those stupid moments when you are staring into each others eyes, instead of laughing and looking away, grab her and kiss her.
ViciousViolet Posted October 3, 2010 Posted October 3, 2010 Maybe she isn't ready to commit yet? You might not be the only guy she has her eyes on right now. If she doesn't want an official relationship, then you don't have to be exclusive, either. Keep your options open.
that girl Posted October 3, 2010 Posted October 3, 2010 You need to talk to her. "No, I don't want a relationship but it doesn't mean I don't like you" implies something is going on. She seems obviously attracted so I'm guessing it is something like just got out of a relationship or some other type of concern. What you should have done is asked her what she wanted when she said she didn't want a relationship.
Fire Salamander Posted October 3, 2010 Posted October 3, 2010 Move on, if Brad Pitt asked her if she wanted a relationship... You think she would give him the damn same BS line? It's obvious, she embarrassed of you. You are bringing her value down in someway. Don't let this b!tch think she can have your time and attention while you get nothing in return. There's really nothing you can do except walk away. I'm not talking about avoiding her for a few days. Just completely ignore her and move on. If she really wants you, you'll know. Because she'll come out and say it.
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