counterman Posted October 2, 2010 Posted October 2, 2010 Update to: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t247408/ Well, most important thing was... I HAD FUN! The night started off not too shabby. I bumped into a couple of high school friends and hung out with them. You know how there's this gathering outside before you enter the doors of formal event, well, there was that. I felt maybe I should have spoken to others more, others who I haven't met before. There were LOADS of pretty ladies, HEAPS of them. And, you know what? I think I actually got a few glances and smiles. So, I was a bit disappointed I didn't act on it. However, I did introduce myself to some pretty girl afterwards. The night is able to begin and I see my ex. Of course I largely avoided eye contact with her and this continued for the whole night. I saw her boyfriend to, and I avoided eye contact with him. There was one incident though where he sat about 15 ft away from me, subsequently blocking my view of the act that was on the stage. He mad NO eye contact with me whatsoever. I do know that he knew I was there but that's as much of an attempt to annoy me and I just shrugged it off. Instead of being seated with multiple single girls as I thought I was doing to be... I was seated with TWO girls you had boyfriends! Of course I didn't know this at first...so I was flirting with both of them. They were reluctant at first and then through out the night things got a better and we shared laughs and whatnot. However, I found out the the girl sitting next to me, she was so hot and sexy, has a boyfriend! Needless to say, I should have stopped flirting right there but I kept going... I don't know, there was some thrill to it. It was fun. But putting me on a table with two taken girls? C'mon. I am sort of kicking myself for not speaking to some of the other ones... there were so many! Anyways, I had fun catching up with some of my friends and meeting other new people (not necessarily girls). There were many laughs and I am definitely participating more It was the first massive event I have been to in a while... and I was a bit nervous and excited at the same time. The night ended... and I didn't want it to end. Okay, so, I want you guys to tell me if there is anything wrong with what I did... I gave those two girls a hug goodbye and a kiss on the cheek goodbye. One girl pulled back and the other one didn't. For me, I didn't mean much by it... It was more a nice meeting you, it was fun night, have a good night sort of thing. But yes, that's what I did. I didn't know whether I should have done it or not since they have boyfriends... but it didn't cross my mind then. Now, I feel kind of empty inside. I don't know what it is, but it was fun being around fun girls, you know? Too bad they were taken. The night seemed to end far too quickly. And, I was probably kicking myself from not talking and having fun with the other girls. It was an enjoyable night. But, I am feeling empty...what do you think it could be? Maybe getting back into the mundane nature of things? I don't know. I don't think my ex crossed my mind much at all during that night.
welikeincrowds Posted October 2, 2010 Posted October 2, 2010 I don't think my ex crossed my mind much at all during that night. Then your night was nothing but 100% successful. Congratulations, bro! You did it. There's no rush, by the way. Flirting is its own justification. Rome wasn't built in a day.
Author counterman Posted October 3, 2010 Author Posted October 3, 2010 You're right, there's no rush. I don't know what I was so worried about. Now, should I add the two girls on Facebook or just leave it?
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