russian2 Posted October 2, 2010 Posted October 2, 2010 so i met this chick first week of school. She sat behind me in class so after class i would walk with her and we would talk and get to know eachother. A week later I asked her out and she replied almost immediately with a "definitely yes" and then gave me her number. The day of the date came and she said she was going longboarding with friends. So after that weekend, I asked how her weekend was in which she replied "great, hung out with my BF" to which i answered " i didnt know you had one". she said, "yea it happened over the weekend, ive known him for a while" I dont understand why she would say yes to go out... and then get a boyfriend the same day that we were supposed to go out...
carhill Posted October 2, 2010 Posted October 2, 2010 The good news is you did really well, showing your interest quickly and properly. The not so good news is the crapshoot of who you picked to show that interest to wasn't apparently on the same page and also appears to be a typical young lady in her maturity and demeanor. So, expect a lot more of same to happen before you get to be old and hairless like me. That part of the mating game never changes. Onward to the next potential. Ours is not to wonder why; ours is to do or die
AverageJoe Posted October 2, 2010 Posted October 2, 2010 What does a boyfriend have to do with you? It doesnt. Especially a weekend boyfriend. You gonna give up or tuck your balls between your legs and do a penguin walk home? Let me know, I am curious how this turns out.
USMCHokie Posted October 2, 2010 Posted October 2, 2010 "Uh, wtf" is right... I'm sorry it happened to you, but I think it's f'in hilarious... But there's something you seem to have either ignored or failed to consider: "The day of the date came and she said she was going longboarding with friends." INSTA-LAUNCH. Without hesitation and never looking back. So when you came to take her out, she said she was doing something else instead? There is no recovery from that for any girl... However, I must ask, because you were rather unclear, did you make solid plans for a date on that day prior to that day...?
Author russian2 Posted October 2, 2010 Author Posted October 2, 2010 made plans a week in advance. now she tries to sit next to me in class and be all "buddy buddy" with me. I definitly wont be giving her a chance even if she wants to go out now.
USMCHokie Posted October 2, 2010 Posted October 2, 2010 made plans a week in advance. now she tries to sit next to me in class and be all "buddy buddy" with me. I definitly wont be giving her a chance even if she wants to go out now. I wouldn't even be friends with her. I don't have friends who are that flaky or inconsiderate, as Angel said. I have a higher standard of friendship than that.
Angel1111 Posted October 2, 2010 Posted October 2, 2010 [quote=USMCHokie;3026129INSTA-LAUNCH. Without hesitation and never looking back. So when you came to take her out, she said she was doing something else instead? There is no recovery from that for any girl... Amen to this.
Angel1111 Posted October 2, 2010 Posted October 2, 2010 I wouldn't even be friends with her. I don't have friends who are that flaky or inconsiderate, as Angel said. I have a higher standard of friendship than that. Amen to this, also.
AverageJoe Posted October 2, 2010 Posted October 2, 2010 made plans a week in advance. now she tries to sit next to me in class and be all "buddy buddy" with me. I definitly wont be giving her a chance even if she wants to go out now. Oh, well in that case she flaked out completely and she was testing you. No excuses, you have the right idea.
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