jerbear Posted October 1, 2010 Posted October 1, 2010 (edited) This is a continuation from the off-topic thread. http://www.loveshack.org/forums/showpost.php?p=3024590&postcount=3458 I couldn't sleep so I'm on LS now. About two weeks ago, she asked what I wanted and she'll think about it. Spent the weekend with her roommate/landlord who has a condo on the beach, spent the night. Last night had dinner with them. Figured it out last night why she was so cold recently and a discussion about relationships. It was a good 3 weeks of spending time together. Oh well... home court advantage that I can't win. Move on and leave her alone. Pretty much, during dinner they talked like they were a couple, after dinner he went into his room, she showed me her room. I don't know if it was what roommates do, I don't know. They didn't do anything but the conversations were interesting. Something like multidating and the two guys meeting. Really awkward. I felt something last week so this one has to much dram a for me now. She and I talked for awhile, he disappeared into his room. Today she texted me a picture of something she bought, asked a job question, and said she's free after 7; I told her I'm busy till 7 and let me know when she is done work. Then said she is going home to watch a DVD with him. She wants me to go with her to her sister's wedding, wants to meet my mom, talked about my sex life, then this stuff. I don't get her, she is giving me hints... so no I'm not ok.... WTF She is contact with all her ex's. I mean everyone except like the OCD one. She was in a 9 year, then a few short ones, and then the ex of 2-3 years??? She was comparing me to all of them. The reason why she relocated from her home state was because she wanted to be closer to her then BF, then he broke up with her. She still came and now is pursuing another degree and will take a few more years. She wants to be the alpha in the relationship and bread winner. She hates that I make more than her now and can make more if I wanted too. I don't know. Oh yeah she was the one that initiated kissing me. I took her places to try to know more about her, she would tell me what "makes her happy" now she doesn't. After dinner all I got was a tight hug. Edited October 1, 2010 by jerbear
Author jerbear Posted October 1, 2010 Author Posted October 1, 2010 During our after dinner talk, she mentioned she got a new job but wont' tell me anything. Then told me to not help her, she wants to do everything her way herself. I said to her independence is a great virtue but trying to find a job (hidden jobs) thru a website/HR is good but there are other ways. Yesterday she sent a text out of the blue and asked if I got the game for my phone. I didn't reply. Then she asked if I have access to watch a tv show she likes. I replied, no to game and yes to show.
Author jerbear Posted October 8, 2010 Author Posted October 8, 2010 I just found out I was the rebound! Oh well... mark off another one.
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