lostwithafuture Posted October 1, 2010 Posted October 1, 2010 Hi there, I have gotten to know this girl for over a year and a lot has happened. We kissed at some point a few months ago but then she did not want to take things further and I confronted her and had a major argument which got a bit nasty for no reason. She said she did not want to talk to me any more (her mum told her not too as well). I managed to get her to talk to me again under the condition that we only stay friends as that is what she wanted. I done this as I did not want to break it all up with her having a bad memory of me. Now we have started talking again frequently and we see each other quite a bit, now as much as I want to stay only friends it is very difficult but at the same time I do not think she wants anything more from me although I believe I have fallen in love with this girl without meaning to. My plan was to simply get talking again and leave without any arguments but it is proving to be difficult. Talking to her about it would just cause more arguments I think, simply because she is always very sensitive. So I wanted to ask what the best way of doing this would be without being rude or her noticing? I have been played big time here but I want to cut my losses and really forget about my feelings for her and just leave. I think she is just as attached to me too but at the same time she will never admit it so I think the best thing to do is just get out. Any sort of advice would really be appreciated! I really cannot think straight at the moment. Thank you in advance!
jadedone Posted October 1, 2010 Posted October 1, 2010 She does NOT want a relationship with you. If she did you would be together. If you want a relationship with a woman, don't try to be their friend. Try to be their lover. Move on. Find another girl.
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