grecian Posted September 30, 2010 Posted September 30, 2010 I go out with a guy once a week but I would like to see him more often. I wanna ask the guys out there... is it a turn off or too aggressive for me to tell him that I wanna see him more, maybe a couple of times a week?? Or, maybe just ask him; hey would you like to see each other a little more often?? What do you guys think?
lebbis Posted September 30, 2010 Posted September 30, 2010 Don't ask in a structured kind of way like, I would like to see you more times a week. Just ask him out for a date in the middle of the week and see where that goes.
phineas Posted September 30, 2010 Posted September 30, 2010 When you say "see him more often" do you mean "sex more often" ?
Author grecian Posted September 30, 2010 Author Posted September 30, 2010 No phineas, we're not there yet; we're just going out together to get to know each other better
Philetus Posted September 30, 2010 Posted September 30, 2010 I go out with a guy once a week but I would like to see him more often. I wanna ask the guys out there... is it a turn off or too aggressive for me to tell him that I wanna see him more, maybe a couple of times a week?? Or, maybe just ask him; hey would you like to see each other a little more often?? What do you guys think? Personally, I wouldn't mind it but I don't know what your guy is like so I'd play it a little cooler. If, for example, you guys have a regular thing on Saturday, I'd invite him to do something on another day. Like, "hey, you wanna catch dinner and a movie this Wednesday?" That is, instead of asking to see him more in a general sense, invite him to something specific. That way if he balks you have your answer without potentially scaring him off.
Disillusioned Posted September 30, 2010 Posted September 30, 2010 Well, *my* answers wouldn't be of any use, because I've lived alone and womanless for years...
Sphere Posted September 30, 2010 Posted September 30, 2010 Just ask him if he wants to do something, just give him the green light and if he any balls and he's interested, he'll proceed.
CLC2008 Posted September 30, 2010 Posted September 30, 2010 I'm not a male, but I like to ease into it in the beginning and start spending more time together as the relationship progresses. So, I think 1-2 times a week in the beginning is a good pace. How long have you been dating?
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