ppzinha Posted September 29, 2010 Posted September 29, 2010 Okay, I'm 27 and my boyfriend is 35, we are together for 4 years and we live together. But the last time we had sex was in february/2010 because I was the one forcing him to want to have sex. He never told me "I love you," I'm sure he is not going to propose. I do everything I can to make him happy. But I have noticed that the girl, who works with him has more intimacy with him than me. She always gives him gifts and cards, she is also married. I don't like the way she talks to him, and I think this whole situation makes me think he is doing something wrong. I feel lost, trapped, and unhappy. I don't know what to do? Can someone help me?
Philetus Posted September 29, 2010 Posted September 29, 2010 Okay, I'm 27 and my boyfriend is 35, we are together for 4 years and we live together. But the last time we had sex was in february/2010 because I was the one forcing him to want to have sex. He never told me "I love you," I'm sure he is not going to propose. I do everything I can to make him happy. But I have noticed that the girl, who works with him has more intimacy with him than me. She always gives him gifts and cards, she is also married. I don't like the way she talks to him, and I think this whole situation makes me think he is doing something wrong. I feel lost, trapped, and unhappy. I don't know what to do? Can someone help me? I'm sorry but I think there's only one way to go and that is to end it. You've been together four years and he's never said he loves you. It seems like you want to get married but he's moving away from you. You haven't had sex in six months. It's hard but there doesn't seem to be much there to salvage. Facing an uncertain future is very hard, I know I've done it. But, you're 27, you have so much time to get through this and find someone who will love and appreciate you. You have to believe that you deserve to be happy and that you will be. But, this situation seems like it can only bring you more pain. Time to rip off the band aid. Good luck!
carhill Posted September 29, 2010 Posted September 29, 2010 I'd start looking for an apartment tomorrow. Welcome to LS
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