I'm annoyed

[Eclypse]

I've been dating my girlfriend for almost 6 months now. Everything is perfect. Well.. almost everything. Her parents are very protective of her. It is very difficult to go out with the curfew. She needs to leave my house by a certain time. And it is very difficult to go out into the city with this ridiculous curfew because we have to leave so early so I can take her to my home and she can drive off to hers.

 

This friday I wanted to go out with my friends for my birthday. It is a fairly special occasion. However with my gf's situation it would be very difficult to do anything since she has to be leaving by the time most clubs open.

So I suggested she spend the night at my place. But she isn't allowed. So now I'm not sure what to do for that night. She also wasn't allowed to leave home later.

 

I'm sort of at my wits end here. It's very frustrating. I don't want my girlfriend and going out with friends to be 2 very mutually exclusive things. I want to spend time with everyone. But this makes it very difficult. She is 21 and in every single country or culture on this planet she is an adult who is free to make her own choices. As a side note, I've known her family for years. I'm much liked in the friendship group our families have. Every single thing I've done since we met was to try and prove my trustworthiness.

 

But she is very timid, and it does get to me sometimes. I have to take the lead always and organise everything. I'm a year and a half younger than her. I really don't know what to do, we had a big argument today where she said I transferred the blame of her parents not letting her go onto her. I was a jerk I admit it, but I was severely frustrated by then.

 

This has me thinking that maybe we aren't perfect for each other. We are all lovey dovey together and stuff, and we do really love each other... but I don't know how much longer I can wait for her. And I definetly don't intend to party away with my buddies while she's at home alone.....