irc333 Posted September 29, 2010 Posted September 29, 2010 This is interesting, and from a perspective a certain single woman, apparently she is not really keen on men approaching her, well....I wouldn't say that ( that wouldn't be realistic) but she's just found that a VAST majority of men, who have EVER approached her, she had no interest in. Lately, she tends to put out "the vibe" that she doesn't want to be approached in public, even in venues where it's conducive FOR approaching. Lately her attitude has been that SHE does the approaching, even in her profile she'll state, "If I'm interested in you, I'LL approach YOU!" She actually claims to be intimidating to approach as well. (Personally, I think this an "issue" if SHE claims this, sounds like it's intentional) Apparenlty, if a WOMAN takes control and does the approaching the quality of men will go UP! Apparently, it saves a lot of time and hassle, since men she isn't interested in always approach her and having to deal with trying to make it obvious to the guy she isn't interested. Agree or disagree? Any theories as to why this particular woman has this attitude (not sure if it's an entirely healthy one either)
EasyHeart Posted September 29, 2010 Posted September 29, 2010 It doesn't change the quality of men, it's just that -- by definition -- the men she approaches are men that she is attracted to. Most women aren't interested in the the vast majority of men who approach them. I've been approached by many women, and they are virtually never women I'm interested in, but every woman I've ever approached is -- by definition -- a woman I am interested in.
Kamille Posted September 29, 2010 Posted September 29, 2010 With all the questions you ask about what motivates people and, more specifically women, to do this and that when on-line dating, you should consider writing a thesis on the topic of : "Attitudes of women when on-line dating". You clearly have a passion for the topic. Who knows and who cares? Does this woman's or the other one's profile you analyze have a direct impact on the quality of your life?
Author irc333 Posted September 29, 2010 Author Posted September 29, 2010 Hm, writing a book on this...I don't beleive I'm saying this...but THAT'S not a bad idea! With all the questions you ask about what motivates people and, more specifically women, to do this and that when on-line dating, you should consider writing a thesis on the topic of : "Attitudes of women when on-line dating". You clearly have a passion for the topic. Who knows and who cares? Does this woman's or the other one's profile you analyze have a direct impact on the quality of your life?
Star Gazer Posted September 29, 2010 Posted September 29, 2010 Bells, really? Why do you analyze EVERY SINGLE WOMAN like this?!? Ugh.
waynebrady Posted September 29, 2010 Posted September 29, 2010 This is interesting, and from a perspective a certain single woman, apparently she is not really keen on men approaching her, well....I wouldn't say that ( that wouldn't be realistic) but she's just found that a VAST majority of men, who have EVER approached her, she had no interest in. Lately, she tends to put out "the vibe" that she doesn't want to be approached in public, even in venues where it's conducive FOR approaching. Lately her attitude has been that SHE does the approaching, even in her profile she'll state, "If I'm interested in you, I'LL approach YOU!" She actually claims to be intimidating to approach as well. (Personally, I think this an "issue" if SHE claims this, sounds like it's intentional) Apparenlty, if a WOMAN takes control and does the approaching the quality of men will go UP! Apparently, it saves a lot of time and hassle, since men she isn't interested in always approach her and having to deal with trying to make it obvious to the guy she isn't interested. Agree or disagree? Any theories as to why this particular woman has this attitude (not sure if it's an entirely healthy one either) I doubt that woman really exist. Women never make the first move and approach a man first. It's not in their nature to do so. Women want the man to "chase" them and make them feel needed and wanted.
Mad Max Posted September 29, 2010 Posted September 29, 2010 I doubt that woman really exist. Women never make the first move and approach a man first. It's not in their nature to do so. Women want the man to "chase" them and make them feel needed and wanted. I don't know if you're a troll or not, but this is annoying. Just like the other poster that claims women don't like sex. It's not in a woman's "nature" to work a corporate job either, but they do.
Cee Posted September 29, 2010 Posted September 29, 2010 I use that woman's approach to get men to leave me alone. I love club dancing and have ZERO interest in being approached. I love dancing by myself and my friends and not with strangers. I have tried to politely tell guys that and it hasn't worked. Now I never make eye contact and leave the dance floor when a guy insists on dancing with me. Then the guy moves on to find another woman to dance with. I've pretty much given up on a lot of dance clubs b/c I don't like being hassled from men. I wish I was hotter and more intimidating b/c I'm sick of guys grinding against me b/c they think I'll be grateful for the attention. I'm not.
waynebrady Posted September 29, 2010 Posted September 29, 2010 I don't know if you're a troll or not, but this is annoying. Just like the other poster that claims women don't like sex. It's not in a woman's "nature" to work a corporate job either, but they do. I'm not a troll... Sex is something that men want and women give so in a way that statement about women don't like sex is partially true. I think that women do not like making the first move and taking the initiative in dating, if they do they will still never be happy with the guy anyway. A woman will never go after a guy like that... Men are assertive and women are passive, especcially when it comes to finding a partner. That's the way it always has been and always will be.
Mad Max Posted September 29, 2010 Posted September 29, 2010 I use that woman's approach to get men to leave me alone. I love club dancing and have ZERO interest in being approached. I love dancing by myself and my friends and not with strangers. I have tried to politely tell guys that and it hasn't worked. Now I never make eye contact and leave the dance floor when a guy insists on dancing with me. Then the guy moves on to find another woman to dance with. I've pretty much given up on a lot of dance clubs b/c I don't like being hassled from men. I wish I was hotter and more intimidating b/c I'm sick of guys grinding against me b/c they think I'll be grateful for the attention. I'm not. This is why I don't go to clubs. I don't like being around drunk girls and many of them will randomly approach guys to dance. Probably best to avoid the setting altogether.
Mad Max Posted September 29, 2010 Posted September 29, 2010 I'm not a troll... Sex is something that men want and women give so in a way that statement about women don't like sex is partially true. @ partially true. Women have just as much sex drive as men. GTFO with them not liking sex. I think that women do not like making the first move and taking the initiative in dating, if they do they will still never be happy with the guy anyway. A woman will never go after a guy like that... Men are assertive and women are passive, especcially when it comes to finding a partner. That's the way it always has been and always will be. No one likes making the first move, but someone has to. You must be hiding somewhere because I've seen plenty of women make the first move. And guess what? Any woman that doesn't make the first move has absolutely no right to complain about guys not approaching her. Either make a move or move on.
Author irc333 Posted September 29, 2010 Author Posted September 29, 2010 Well, I have had women admit the fact that if a man gives them his #, they won't call, simply because "A woman shouldn't do that" So I dunno, there's some women that do that because it's not the woman'sn role. @ partially true. Women have just as much sex drive as men. GTFO with them not liking sex. No one likes making the first move, but someone has to. You must be hiding somewhere because I've seen plenty of women make the first move. And guess what? Any woman that doesn't make the first move has absolutely no right to complain about guys not approaching her. Either make a move or move on.
Mad Max Posted September 29, 2010 Posted September 29, 2010 Well, I have had women admit the fact that if a man gives them his #, they won't call, simply because "A woman shouldn't do that" So I dunno, there's some women that do that because it's not the woman'sn role. Their loss, not his. Gender "roles" and "rules" do more harm than good.
waynebrady Posted September 30, 2010 Posted September 30, 2010 @ partially true. Women have just as much sex drive as men. GTFO with them not liking sex. Well they certenley never show it if that's the case lol. No one likes making the first move, but someone has to. You must be hiding somewhere because I've seen plenty of women make the first move. And guess what? Any woman that doesn't make the first move has absolutely no right to complain about guys not approaching her. Either make a move or move on. I agree with this. Sadly most women think it's the mans job to not only make the first move but also initiate every further contact and plan every date, even in commited relationships.
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