Lucky555 Posted September 28, 2010 Posted September 28, 2010 I'm really happy i dodged a bullet. Exes are x's for a reason. I feel somewhat relieved after talking to him because he just wont stop talking to me. I guess i couldn't take him contacting me anymore and I really wanted to know what was going on. I have avoided him and he just sends messages then i found myself having more contact and more contact. It was really odd as he was flirting and acting like he wanted to get back together. So i had already made up my mind for months that I wasn't going to get back with him for him to treat me like crap again. Well, tonight i kinda played it by saying that i wanted to get back together to see if this is what he wanted. IF he did then i was going to tell him the things that would not fly in a relationship with me and that he could take it or leave it. I was willing to stand my ground YAY~ I have not given my heart back to him at all even though it kinda still hurts. I was tough! Basically I straight out asked him what his interest was in me. He told me he wanted a fling nothing long term. Well I was not surprised as i suspected this when i first got with him at the beginning of this year because he told me everything I wanted to hear. But im smarter than to listen its actions.. So all this time he was keeping contact just for sex. boy he just proved himself to be a complete jerk. I think now he will have less contact with me but who knows. At least I know that i wasn't used or a fool!!!!!!! I'm some what relieved now too because i said we could just be friends which really means there is nothing more here for you to chase after!!! I'm no longer confused and i feel so good about this. I don't care if i talk to him again either! I was right all along!!! Months and months of not knowing he always had an excuse and always claimed he wanted more when his actions didn't show it. Now he confessed with a bit of me just getting him to tell the truth Someday i hope to find an honest man but now my heart is free from any strings so i guess its good! So question is why are men jerks why do they lie. This guy was pretending to be my Friend and pretending to care....although i never really felt like he truly cared.
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