brainygirl Posted September 27, 2010 Posted September 27, 2010 If someone is potentially a keeper? I mean, I know when someone completely grosses me out and pissed me off. I know when my values, humor, and interests are wildly different from those of the other person. In those cases its easy to just let things go and not worry about it. But what about when the person isn't a bad person? When he's actually cute and was nice, polite, and respectful. When you share similar senses of humor and think along similar lines when it comes to things you are interested in? But there just aren't very many sparks, even after a nice date, and you realize its been all day and one hte one hand you could text him, but on the other you'd be just as happy not. What does that mean? Keep seeing him and see if sparks develop, or just call it now?
USMCHokie Posted September 27, 2010 Posted September 27, 2010 But there just aren't very many sparks, even after a nice date, and you realize its been all day and one hte one hand you could text him, but on the other you'd be just as happy not. Sign that you aren't physically attracted to him or something about his personality just turns you off regardless of what he looks like...not a good thing... What does that mean? Keep seeing him and see if sparks develop, or just call it now? I'm sorry to say that in my experience, sparks have never developed if they weren't there to begin with...but I'm a guy...but then again, I've been accused of thinking like a woman (Green... )
welikeincrowds Posted September 27, 2010 Posted September 27, 2010 Search your feelings, brainygirl, you know them to be true. Uh, I mean, if you haven't the conviction to say "no," then don't. It means that you are curious -- interested -- even if it is said in the whitespace rather than the ink. Sparks are mysterious, and you should give them ample time to not develop, but show themselves. You will know when you've waited too long, because you'll, hurr durr derp, no longer be interested.
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