whatsittoya Posted September 27, 2010 Posted September 27, 2010 since second day of class she's really nice to me and wicked chatty.and the last few days she's staying outside class till i come out and walk with me to her car. and i'm getting deployed in june and i told her that it came up on some convo she counted the mo's and all upset about it, asked me if i'm scared and i'm really not im really excited to go and then she said well im scared for you and keep telling me to be safe and come back like all the time the girl is wicked cute matter fact really gorgeous but she has a 3yo and is married so i'm not goign to take it any further than a friend ship but why is she soo nice to me but no the other 12 guys in class btw she's 3yrs older than me (i'm 21) and yes i go to a civilian college coz i'm just in the reserves. i just want to know why she's so nice to me its kinda puzzling
USMCHokie Posted September 27, 2010 Posted September 27, 2010 since second day of class she's really nice to me and wicked chatty.and the last few days she's staying outside class till i come out and walk with me to her car. and i'm getting deployed in june and i told her that it came up on some convo she counted the mo's and all upset about it, asked me if i'm scared and i'm really not im really excited to go and then she said well im scared for you and keep telling me to be safe and come back like all the time the girl is wicked cute matter fact really gorgeous but she has a 3yo and is married so i'm not goign to take it any further than a friend ship but why is she soo nice to me but no the other 12 guys in class btw she's 3yrs older than me (i'm 21) and yes i go to a civilian college coz i'm just in the reserves. i just want to know why she's so nice to me its kinda puzzling Keep your distance, bro... And military guys tend to attract women, for whatever reason...and if you're attractive, that only makes it harder for them to resist...
GooseChaser Posted September 27, 2010 Posted September 27, 2010 Keep your distance, bro... And military guys tend to attract women, for whatever reason...and if you're attractive, that only makes it harder for them to resist... I missed the part where it said she was married! Well, that makes things a lot simpler! I agree with Hokie! Stay away from married women, unless it is PURELY platonic!
Star Gazer Posted September 27, 2010 Posted September 27, 2010 And military guys tend to attract women, for whatever reason...and if you're attractive, that only makes it harder for them to resist... This is true...
Author whatsittoya Posted September 27, 2010 Author Posted September 27, 2010 just wondering can it be she's just a really friendly person, tell the truth i kinda like talking with her girl is just awesome not like any of the girls i know she's just a classy decent girl all around i dont want to hook up with her or any thing just trying to figure out why she's so friendly. btw i thought being in the military keeps girls away thats the reason my ex broke up and im just in the reserves
GooseChaser Posted September 27, 2010 Posted September 27, 2010 It could be, Toya! Just don't let things get out of hand and keep things at a friends level! Make sure that she knows that that is as far as it goes, if she tries any moves! No problem!
USMCHokie Posted September 27, 2010 Posted September 27, 2010 If she was being friendly because she wanted to hook up with you, would that change the way you talk to her? If she was just extra friendly, would that affect how you approach her? btw i thought being in the military keeps girls away thats the reason my ex broke up and im just in the reserves Eh, it depends on the girl...but in my opinion, women seem to be initially attracted by the military status, but when they are actually in the relationship and realize how much it can suck, they run away...
Author whatsittoya Posted September 27, 2010 Author Posted September 27, 2010 If she was being friendly because she wanted to hook up with you, would that change the way you talk to her? If she was just extra friendly, would that affect how you approach her? without a doubt, right now i just cant figure her out i mean why is she so nice to me, i'm kinda being cautious specially she's married. if she was being friendly well it'll be cool to have her as a friend. and if she wasnt married well then itll be a whole another story lol.
Author whatsittoya Posted September 27, 2010 Author Posted September 27, 2010 but how can i know if she likes me or just being friendly
USMCHokie Posted September 27, 2010 Posted September 27, 2010 but how can i know if she likes me or just being friendly The magic question though is, if she does happentolike you, are you going to leave her alone or try to nail her...? Because I can smell the latter from a mile away...
Author whatsittoya Posted September 28, 2010 Author Posted September 28, 2010 The magic question though is, if she does happentolike you, are you going to leave her alone or try to nail her...? Because I can smell the latter from a mile away... pretty sure i'll leave her alone i hope at least thats what i want to do btw thanks for response bro i'm guessing your a marine too
dispatch3d Posted September 28, 2010 Posted September 28, 2010 This is true... ??? there are the ones who are really good with women, and the ones who are terrible, and not much inbetween. So I'm guessing you focus on the latter.
USMCHokie Posted September 28, 2010 Posted September 28, 2010 pretty sure i'll leave her alone i hope at least thats what i want to do btw thanks for response bro i'm guessing your a marine too Yea, I am...
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