Roxanna Posted September 27, 2010 Posted September 27, 2010 When you start getting annoyed by lots of kind of random things, is it time to end the relationship? Is it a way of subconsciously looking for an out? I'm annoyed with my bf over little things a lot lately it seems. One thing is the last thread I started. Another is how much he drank this weekend - he was the messiest person while we were out, and we had to go home early because of it. I could tell he had had way too much to drink, and asked him to stop, so he did, but he was rude to me the rest of the night because he was mad about it. He slept in today (not sure how late, because I was up at 7:30 and gone by 9:30), didn't leave the couch all day long when he did finally get up, decided to take a nap at 4 this afternoon, and over 4 hours later is still passed out. It's so unattractive, and he's old enough that he shouldn't be getting so drunk in settings such as the one we were in last night. Should I let it go since this doesn't happen every weekend?
LucreziaBorgia Posted September 27, 2010 Posted September 27, 2010 This is the beginning stages of falling out of love with someone. It can go a couple of ways: do nothing and let the relationship deteriorate, or if you feel you want to save it, address those things that annoy you and see if things can be reset in a way where you won't find yourself annoyed. If you continue to find yourself annoyed regardless of what you do or don't do, then you will find that mild annoyances will eventually grow up to be outright resentments and by that time it is time to move on.
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