L3stat Posted September 26, 2010 Posted September 26, 2010 Graduated from the break up forum to the dating forum so YaY me! Long story short i met this lovely french girl(22) about ten days ago, we have been hanging out, i have grown quite fond of her. She barely speaks English and i barely speak french so its funny to try to talk to each other but we get through somehow. My problem is i think she has commitment issues... She told me that everything i say reminds her of her bf/them, that didn't phase me because i heard this story before and i always get through it no biggie. Seeing how we have a language barrier between us i cant really say what i want to say to her properly, she knows i like her a lot and i know she likes me a lot too. We are always holding hands/kissing and have done sexual things on more the one occasion so i know I'm not friend zoned or anything like that. Whats worst is she is talking to other guys and she is always on her dating profile the one that i met her on, always texting and talking on the phone even when i am with her and i know its a guy. I know she is looking for friends because shes new here, shes beautiful which means that a lot of guys are talking to her and she is letting them... i don't know if she actually believes that these guys just want to be "fiends" or what. i told her about this and all i get is a chuckle and a blank stare:confused: sighs... I told her how i felt a lot of times and i know she enjoys it on the count that shes is always smiling and rubbing up against me as i tell her and always gives me this passionate kiss after wards:cool:.....i told her that i don't want to jump into anything with her right now until we get to know each other a little bit more which was great with her, and good for me.. but when i ever i try to ask her anything remotely personal i get a blank stare:confused: no matter how i ask it she just doesn't open up to me at all:lmao: i tried talking to her about it she says its just how she is her moods change everyday... when i ask her how she feels about me she'll say she likes me or i already told you:mad:.....when i approach her about the guys shes talking to i get a ****ing stare:confused: i say i am gonna stop dating her if things don't change and she opens up to me i get another stare:confused:.... i know she has had her heart broken before and she told me that she scared of falling in love with me:cool: and i can understand and respect that. I just don't know how to handle her and what to say to her to make her feel like she can open up to me, i know its not a level of comfort, she sleeps on me all time, i know its not that. i need some serious real advice how to get though this bull:mad:
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