Sphere Posted September 25, 2010 Posted September 25, 2010 I've met a girl about a year and a half ago at work, we started off as work colleagues and then became friends (we're still friends), I found her attractive, but I wasn't interested in her and just as well because she has an SO (who she is still with). I wrote her off when she told me she had an SO and we're just friends and have been ever since. That wasn't a problem until she started getting under my skin and I began feel more and more of an attraction towards her, I started to become interested in her and I thought it would go away, but it hasn't, and bit by bit it's growing stronger and I won't act on it because she is in a relationship with someone else. She knows I won't act on it and she knows I fancy her because she has mentioned it on several occasions in front of other people outside of work and inside of work. I know she is interested in me, but being a good woman she won't stray and that's fantastic, only idiots get into triangles. Anyway, enough with the BS... I'm debating whether or not to cut her off completely, erase her number, erase her facebook and myspace, and I've even contemplated moving departments to get away from her, is this a sensible thing to do or is it me being stupid and immature? I don't like the fact that I'm developing something for another man's woman, I don't pursue taken women and I hate the fact I've been able to dominate and dictate my emotions with other women, just not this one. Does out of sight, out of mind work?
a_woman Posted September 25, 2010 Posted September 25, 2010 I think getting away from her would be a very good idea. Not immature at all.
Author Sphere Posted September 25, 2010 Author Posted September 25, 2010 I think getting away from her would be a very good idea. Not immature at all. You're right, it's gonna be tough because I do like her as a friend too, but I guess it's got to be done. It's a situation that has only happened once, it's all weird. Cheers for the advice!
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