tfkizzle Posted September 24, 2010 Posted September 24, 2010 Does this happen to other people in relationships? What do you think about it? I have been dating my boyfriend for some time now, and just for example, he tooties in front of me all the time, actually tries to force them out. This is not something he ever did before.
CLC2008 Posted September 24, 2010 Posted September 24, 2010 Does this happen to other people in relationships? What do you think about it? I have been dating my boyfriend for some time now, and just for example, he tooties in front of me all the time, actually tries to force them out. This is not something he ever did before. Tooties. But yes, I can see how constantly tooting (forcefully especially...) can take away from the passion.
welikeincrowds Posted September 24, 2010 Posted September 24, 2010 I would fart in front of you too if I knew you called them "tooties."
Author tfkizzle Posted September 24, 2010 Author Posted September 24, 2010 I would fart in front of you too if I knew you called them "tooties." And here I thought making them sound cute by calling them tooties would make him stop. :laugh: calling him my tootie bear didn't make him stop either???
CLC2008 Posted September 24, 2010 Posted September 24, 2010 And here I thought making them sound cute by calling them tooties would make him stop. :laugh: calling him my tootie bear didn't make him stop either??? Awe, tootie bear. That is adorable.
WTRanger Posted September 24, 2010 Posted September 24, 2010 There is a certain "good" comfort level you can attain with someone you've known for a while. Say, for example, you don't have to worry about turning on the faucet, shower, and fan just to go to the bathroom. You are finally, indeed, comfortable with the fact that everybody poops. However, a guy actually forcing farts out is almost too comfortable. He sees you as one of the guys, but one of the guys he gets to sleep with. You may be losing some of your femininity to him. Yet, in the long run, if this is the only thing he does then is it really worth causing a fight? Instead of hinting at the fact you don't like this. Tell him, flat out that you think it's disgusting. Or match him fart for fart, or leave your tampons out. Hey, if he can be nasty why can't you? Guys tend to understand these sort of fight fire with fire reactions.
CLC2008 Posted September 24, 2010 Posted September 24, 2010 Yes. Please tell bf not to force out his tooties...He could very well have an, ummm, accident. Gross.
Author tfkizzle Posted September 24, 2010 Author Posted September 24, 2010 Or match him fart for fart, or leave your tampons out. Hey, if he can be nasty why can't you? Guys tend to understand these sort of fight fire with fire reactions. Unfortunately, I'm not a very gassy person, I don't think I could summon up any tooties to fight back with I did have the perfect opportunity recently to do something else, but I hadn't posted on LS at that point and didn't think of it! Damn! I told him once before that his behavior was unattractive, but maybe I'll try again.
make me believe Posted September 24, 2010 Posted September 24, 2010 That's disgusting. If my BF purposely farted in front of me it would seriously affect my attraction to him. I would be shocked that he could be so gross and immature. Ugh! I would have a talk with him and tell him that I find it disgusting and disrespectful and that he needs to stop. If he didn't, we would have a problem because I'm just NOT amused by stuff like that. I don't find peeing, farting, pooing, or burping in front of each other to be a sign of "intimacy" at all. Some things should be kept private.
9Lives Posted September 25, 2010 Posted September 25, 2010 I think that is so nasty and I really want u to keep it cool. but I think if its okay to fart in front of me then its ok to leave a bloody tampon around you. I bet he won't like that sht! we both can get gross around this mutha! yuck!
Westy Posted September 25, 2010 Posted September 25, 2010 (edited) Why would he stop? I dated my last girlfriend forever and a day, and we would talk to eachother in the bathroom when the other was takin a dump. i.e. Id be in their brushing my teeth while shes droppin a duece, no big deal, you get to a point where nothing is sacred anymore. I think that is so nasty and I really want u to keep it cool. but I think if its okay to fart in front of me then its ok to leave a bloody tampon around you. I bet he won't like that sht! we both can get gross around this mutha! yuck! two words for you "red" "wings". you think a tampon is bad, be a guy pull your junk out and have it look like like you stuck it in a jar of strawberry jam. I nearly passed out the first time I did that, for the love of God theres chunks of uteral lining on it! Edited September 25, 2010 by Westy
make me believe Posted September 25, 2010 Posted September 25, 2010 Why would he stop? I dated my last girlfriend forever and a day, and we would talk to eachother in the bathroom when the other was takin a dump. i.e. Id be in their brushing my teeth while shes droppin a duece, no big deal, you get to a point where nothing is sacred anymore. See, I refuse to get to that point in my relationship. I see absolutely no need or acceptable reason to use the bathroom in front of my BF, or fart in front of him (unless one just accidentally slips out). There is such a thing as too comfortable, imo. A romantic relationship should be KEPT a romantic relationship. NO ONE needs to see their partner go to the bathroom in order to be "comfortable" with them.
Loquacious Miss L. Posted September 25, 2010 Posted September 25, 2010 This post made me laugh hysterically. Thanks:)
sanskrit Posted September 25, 2010 Posted September 25, 2010 The fart barrier is going to be broken eventually, it's always been the woman in my relationships. It's going to happen when asleep or sometimes unexpectedly, just part of being human. I wouldn't stay with a person who didn't have enough respect for my comfort and space such that they can't get up and go to the bathroom to fart.
AverageJoe Posted September 25, 2010 Posted September 25, 2010 I went over to a girls house once and she was sitting on her couch. She apparently couldnt hold back any longer and thought maybe it would be silent, it wasnt. To make things more interesting she was sitting on one of those pleather couches, you know the ones im taking about. The reverberation off it just compounded the deed. She screemed Pelee (her dogs name)!! And pointed, Bad dog!! She was dead serious about it too. I on the other hand ruptured my spleen from laughter.
Author tfkizzle Posted September 25, 2010 Author Posted September 25, 2010 Why would he stop? I dated my last girlfriend forever and a day, and we would talk to eachother in the bathroom when the other was takin a dump. i.e. Id be in their brushing my teeth while shes droppin a duece, no big deal, you get to a point where nothing is sacred anymore. Yuck.
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