Men, would you defend your sexual orientation to just anybody?

[caseinpoint]

How many of you men would defend your sexual orientation to a woman? For example, if there was a banter about your sexual orientation being less than straight, would you have defended it to every woman, whether you have an interest in them or not?

 

Or would you defend it more to a woman you're interested in as opposed to one you don't feel attracted to?

 

Or is sexual orientation too important to a man that he would defend it to anyone?

[USMCHokie]

For example, if there was a banter about your sexual orientation being less than straight, would you have defended it to every woman, whether you have an interest in them or not?

 

No, I don't care. If someone doesn't believe I'm straight, it's not my problem.

[tigressA]

I'm not a guy but if I were witness to a guy defending his sexual orientation as straight, depending on how vehement they were about it I might think they were protesting too much, if you know what I mean.

[sanskrit]

Usually, talk about your sexual orientation comes from some woman whom you didn't find attractive, is that what has happened to you?

[tman666]

I'd probably just get with one of her friends. Jealousy is a bitch.

[Westy]

I wouldnt defend it at all. I dont really care. I was at a bar with a buddy a few months back, after we were there for awhile this girl came up to us and said her and her friends thought we were gay, so asked if we were. We put on a show and said yes. Later that night we told them the truth. I dont get "threatened" by things like that.

[caseinpoint]

Actually I, a female, was teasing a guy about it over something silly. He got serious and kept reassuring me that he's straight, which I don't doubt.

 

So I wasn't sure if that's the common reaction among guys. Or he doesn't want me to get the wrong impression about his sexual orientation.

[caseinpoint]

USMCHokie, Westy, would you defend it at all to someone you're attracted to?

 

Or the attraction level doesn't change anything?

[Westy]

Actually I, a female, was teasing a guy about it over something silly. He got serious and kept reassuring me that he's straight, which I don't doubt.

 

So I wasn't sure if that's the common reaction among guys. Or he doesn't want me to get the wrong impression about his sexual orientation.

 

 

Hell Ive kissed a gay guy on the mouth for a beer. No skin off my back it was a free beer.

[TaurusTerp]

If it's an unattractive girl, I'd just ignore her.

 

If it's an attractive girl, I'd try to make out with her then and there.

[caseinpoint]

If it's an unattractive girl, I'd just ignore her.

 

If it's an attractive girl, I'd try to make out with her then and there.

 

To prove your point?

[loverofloveandstuff]

To think he likes you because he was defending his sexual orientation is a bit of a long stretch.

 

I'd prefer people not think things about me that aren't true. I think most people feel the same way, women and men.

[Sphere]

If a woman asks me am I gay, I often say yes to the sheer hell of it. I often poke my fun of myself and sexual orientation is just one of many things I mock myself about. I don't see the point of defending something which is plainly obvious for man and beast to see. If a woman thinks I'm less than straight, then so be it, but I bet she goes home and thinks about me naked.

[witabix]

How many of you men would defend your sexual orientation to a woman? For example, if there was a banter about your sexual orientation being less than straight, would you have defended it to every woman, whether you have an interest in them or not?

 

Or would you defend it more to a woman you're interested in as opposed to one you don't feel attracted to?

 

Or is sexual orientation too important to a man that he would defend it to anyone?

 

I'd only really need to point out I was straight if a guy tries to get in my pants. Well if he was an ugly guy I would.......

[alclarkey]

To start with I think this whole thing about wondering whether someone is gay or not is ridiculous. Gay people know how to find each other.

 

Now if a woman asked me if I was gay I would simply say no. And if she pressed the issue, I would simply walk away. I have no desire to sit there and have a ridiculous argument about my sexuality with anyone.

[loverofloveandstuff]

To start with I think this whole thing about wondering whether someone is gay or not is ridiculous. Gay people know how to find each other.

Now if a woman asked me if I was gay I would simply say no. And if she pressed the issue, I would simply walk away. I have no desire to sit there and have a ridiculous argument about my sexuality with anyone.

 

Yeah, it's weird. I've been in the presence of a lot of girls do this weird joking/flirting thing where they tease a guy about his sexual orientation. Really don't know what they get out of it .

[phineas]

How many of you men would defend your sexual orientation to a woman? For example, if there was a banter about your sexual orientation being less than straight, would you have defended it to every woman, whether you have an interest in them or not?

 

Or would you defend it more to a woman you're interested in as opposed to one you don't feel attracted to?

 

Or is sexual orientation too important to a man that he would defend it to anyone?

 

I had a chick who thought she was a ball-buster calling me gay in a bar.

I ignored her for a little but she was a complete bitch that I somehow pissed off & wouldn't shut up.

 

I told her to drop her pants & bend over. If I stick in her ass then she's right, I must be gay.

 

she actually got a kick out of that & started flirting with me.

[caseinpoint]

Actually I didn't start the teasing. For personal reasons, I won't go into why the teasing started.

 

Thanks for replies.