CLC2008 Posted September 23, 2010 Posted September 23, 2010 I have a general question. I was recently asked out on a first date , and he suggested we go out this Friday. Is it typically a good sign if a guy asks you out for a weekend night versus a week night? And, what do guys generally like in terms of what a woman wears on a first date?
witabix Posted September 23, 2010 Posted September 23, 2010 I have a general question. I was recently asked out on a first date , and he suggested we go out this Friday. Is it typically a good sign if a guy asks you out for a weekend night versus a week night? And, what do guys generally like in terms of what a woman wears on a first date? Friday is a 'relaxed' night out IMO. What a woman starts out wearing I really don't mind, as long as she is wearing me out later.
Author CLC2008 Posted September 23, 2010 Author Posted September 23, 2010 Friday is a 'relaxed' night out IMO. What a woman starts out wearing I really don't mind, as long as she is wearing me out later. Good God you're lazy. But yes, I think Friday can be a nice relaxing night, especially since it's after work.
witabix Posted September 23, 2010 Posted September 23, 2010 Good God you're lazy. But yes, I think Friday can be a nice relaxing night, especially since it's after work. I always made it a point to go out on Fridays after work, unwind night is Friday night. I hope you two have a good time, maybe bring some maraschino cherries... As for lazy...no, just a renaissance man who believes in equality and all that stuff......
tigressA Posted September 23, 2010 Posted September 23, 2010 Is this neighbor guy?! Anyway, I think a weekend night is a good sign. Wear whatever makes you feel good. Depending on the venue, dress it up or down.
Author CLC2008 Posted September 23, 2010 Author Posted September 23, 2010 I always made it a point to go out on Fridays after work, unwind night is Friday night. I hope you two have a good time, maybe bring some maraschino cherries... As for lazy...no, just a renaissance man who believes in equality and all that stuff...... Yes you're right. Good call. Thank you. Equality, ah, very true. Is this neighbor guy?! Anyway, I think a weekend night is a good sign. Wear whatever makes you feel good. Depending on the venue, dress it up or down. No, I haven't seen him in a while. Yes, I think I'll see where we're going first, that should help with what to wear. Thanks girlie!
Star Gazer Posted September 23, 2010 Posted September 23, 2010 I agree that Friday is a more relaxed date night...it's the end of the workweek for most people, so it's usually not like a special-special night, if that makes sense...but it's more special than a week-night date. Saturdays are the special date nights, IMO. If he takes you out on a Saturday, that's a really good sign.
alphamale Posted September 23, 2010 Posted September 23, 2010 I have a general question. I was recently asked out on a first date , and he suggested we go out this Friday. Is it typically a good sign if a guy asks you out for a weekend night versus a week night? yes And, what do guys generally like in terms of what a woman wears on a first date? one word: sexy
bobdole Posted September 24, 2010 Posted September 24, 2010 When I ask a girl out - we settle on a day that works for both of us. What day that turns out to be doesn't have any meaning. The only thing about work night dates I generally try to have them wrapped up and be home by around 10pm at the latest. On the weekend nights - they could potentially last all night.
USMCHokie Posted September 24, 2010 Posted September 24, 2010 Weekend night dates are good. Those nights are a personal time that could be spent in a number of other ways, yet he chose to spend it with you.
Author CLC2008 Posted September 24, 2010 Author Posted September 24, 2010 All good perspectives. We agreed on Friday as it worked best for both of us, he's doing something with his friends Saturday night and I have my monthly girls din din and festivities with my female friends, so it works out.
DontStopMeNow Posted September 24, 2010 Posted September 24, 2010 I don't think the day of the week matters all that much. The guy asked you out on a date, so he obviously likes you. The rest is all reading way too much into it lol.
tami-chan Posted September 24, 2010 Posted September 24, 2010 Friday and Saturday night date invites are great because nobody is going to be worried about how late the date will go on... Weekday invites are "safer", in that, if the date is less than enjoyable, you can always say..."got to go, have an early day tomorrow".... Have fun! and report back!
johan Posted September 24, 2010 Posted September 24, 2010 Because the date is not with me, I recommend you don't shower or wear decent clothes. Also don't do your hair. Show up really late.
Author CLC2008 Posted September 24, 2010 Author Posted September 24, 2010 Thanks ladies, much appreciated! Johan, I will wear Mom jeans and a hair net just for you.
johan Posted September 24, 2010 Posted September 24, 2010 Unfortunately, I think you'll probably still look good.
Author CLC2008 Posted September 24, 2010 Author Posted September 24, 2010 Awe thanks. It's nice to hear, it gives a boostie of confidence before a first date.
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