Cee Posted September 23, 2010 Posted September 23, 2010 A few weeks ago, I was out with friends & made out with an acquaintance. It was the second time I hung out with him and I had a small crush on him. It was fun and he was very complimentary, but neither of us pursued contact. The only contact is he's written on my Facebook a few times since then. No big deal. Don't really care. I get a Facebook invite that his band is having a record release party. The other bandmate invited me to the party because it's at his own house. I put a Maybe on Facebook, but then I was thinking... The party is a good excuse to text him. Mention that I'm going to party. My motives for this is to stir the pot a bit, maybe get some friendly or flirty text banter going before I go to the party. Of course, I could just show up at the party, but since he's the star of the show and playing I doubt we'd get much of a chance to talk. What do you think?
tigressA Posted September 23, 2010 Posted September 23, 2010 Sure, text him and mention you're going to the party. Nothing to lose. As you said, it would be a good idea since you're not sure if you'll be able to talk much at the party. If he knows beforehand that you're going, and he's interested, he'll look for you.
Author Cee Posted September 24, 2010 Author Posted September 24, 2010 Thanks for the help. I thought it did make sense to text.
Author Cee Posted September 24, 2010 Author Posted September 24, 2010 Maybe I texted him. Ugh. I texted him and didn't get a response. Then I get a text from a friend saying "wtf?" It turns out he got a text I sent him 24 hours ago just that moment. My phone was crashing all day yesterday, but I didn't think it affected texting. But it may have. I did a bug fix on my phone, but there's no way to know if he got the text. At the moment, I'm assuming he got it & is ignoring me. I might do a brief retext the day of the party.
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