Mangomonkey Posted September 23, 2010 Posted September 23, 2010 Yea i like to show respect to woman. Talk to them and be their friend. Compliment them from time to time. Be there for them when they need me. Show them their appreciated. Make them feel special. Open the door and pull out a chair for them. Show them i care. or whatever else. A woman who need to be treated like dirt and everything like alot of the other posters say aren't worth my time cause if they take it from me then they take it from everybody else and i dont need no woman who likes that kinda mental game and abuse in my life. Im not a pushover. I have my own opinion. I dont toot my own horn and brag how nice i am (obvious exception with the post) cause i have my flaws. I try to make myself happy and dont need someone else to make me know im a good person. They wont be the center of my world cause im the center of my world but they can be apart of it. I am Mango Monkey the fifth. And I am a nice and i am proud
johan Posted September 23, 2010 Posted September 23, 2010 I am Mango Monkey the fifth. And I am a nice and i am proud And single?
Bogo123 Posted September 23, 2010 Posted September 23, 2010 The term "nice guy" means being a doormat and not following your own desires. You are a nice guy, but not a "nice guy"
Author Mangomonkey Posted September 23, 2010 Author Posted September 23, 2010 alright johan you got me im single BUT cause i want to be right now. I dont want to deal with women stressing me out right now. And if anyone is wondering. the point im making is to not be ashamed of who you are and what you do. Anyone that cant see the good that i believe most of you might have. Then hey dont deal with it. But at the same time try not to get used either
skydiveaddict Posted September 23, 2010 Posted September 23, 2010 You are single because you are a "nice guy"
Author Mangomonkey Posted September 23, 2010 Author Posted September 23, 2010 no i am single because i want to be. and to the nice women this goes for you to.
Author Mangomonkey Posted September 23, 2010 Author Posted September 23, 2010 Ok why is that so hard to believe? You never met anyone that doesnt want to be in a relationship for whatever reason?
Gattica Posted September 23, 2010 Posted September 23, 2010 I like nice guys! Keep it up! I don't like having car doors open for me or chairs pulled out. I never have for some reason.
Art_Critic Posted September 23, 2010 Posted September 23, 2010 And single? You are single too ??.. are you a nice guy ?.. I did laugh out loud when I read your post though... I'm a nice guy.. and married
Author Mangomonkey Posted September 23, 2010 Author Posted September 23, 2010 alright skydive im in college right now trying to be an engineer. The course load is extremely tough and i need as much focus as possible. I can get a girlfriend but i dont want to because i dont want to lose my focus. Is that understandable? and i might have been going a bit overboard with the pulling out chairs and stuff but i was just trying to make a point
Woggle Posted September 23, 2010 Posted September 23, 2010 Some people live on principle and are happy with that. I respect that but I want to win and that is why I am not a nice guy. If you are happy to look good while losing then more power to you.
Author Mangomonkey Posted September 23, 2010 Author Posted September 23, 2010 Some people live on principle and are happy with that. I respect that but I want to win and that is why I am not a nice guy. If you are happy to look good while losing then more power to you. I get what your saying. Honestly i do. I guess the subtle message i was trying to say is. Be yourself and dont be ashamed. I hear alot of advice about how to be a jerk or whatever on the threads and well. If you gotta act a certain way then it might just give it away as that. An act. If you are yourself and not ashamed. Well i think it just makes you more interesting. Cause you can either be what someone wants you to be or what you want to be. Just dont be naive about it. Basically trying to be a confidence booster threads for anyone who is feeling down or rejected. guess that backfired. oh well
Pyro Posted September 23, 2010 Posted September 23, 2010 I get what your saying. Honestly i do. I guess the subtle message i was trying to say is. Be yourself and dont be ashamed. I hear alot of advice about how to be a jerk or whatever on the threads and well. If you gotta act a certain way then it might just give it away as that. An act. If you are yourself and not ashamed. Well i think it just makes you more interesting. Cause you can either be what someone wants you to be or what you want to be. Just dont be naive about it. Basically trying to be a confidence booster threads for anyone who is feeling down or rejected. guess that backfired. oh well It didn't backfire. You are just talking to the most negative person on here. Mango I like your attitude. Being kind and considerate to others like you are will get you a long ways in the dating world. Being a jerk will only give you trouble with a girl. Just don't ever fear rejection and don't bend over backwards for any woman unless she is going to do the same for you. Best of luck to you with school.
Stung Posted September 23, 2010 Posted September 23, 2010 Mango I like your attitude. Being kind and considerate to others like you are will get you a long ways in the dating world. Being a jerk will only give you trouble with a girl. Just don't ever fear rejection and don't bend over backwards for any woman unless she is going to do the same for you. Best of luck to you with school. Yep, yep. Good on you, Mango. I know someone who could have written a very similar post, if he chose, a good man and definitely NOT single--my husband .
Veronica K Posted September 23, 2010 Posted September 23, 2010 I like guys who are genuinely kind. I honestly think that sometimes people mistake kindness for weakness. Nothing could be further from the truth, imho. As long as you have your boundaries firmly in place, and as you said, are not naive about it, you have everything to gain by being yourself.
irc333 Posted September 23, 2010 Posted September 23, 2010 I think a lot of people misdefine a nice guy, they see them as a doormat or a sign of weakness for some reason, not sure why. Is he single because he's a nice guy? Probably (same with me, too) but since the population of people being nice vs. jerks or people that prefer to treat others like crap are probably getting more in the minority, THUS the likelihood of still remaining single. He's probably single, because he won't put up with a lot of crap from other people that don't treat him respectfully. Unfortunately, a lot of people wind up in miserable relationships because they would wind up dating someone that treats them like dirt. I don't even date or associate with such people. I like guys who are genuinely kind. I honestly think that sometimes people mistake kindness for weakness. Nothing could be further from the truth, imho. As long as you have your boundaries firmly in place, and as you said, are not naive about it, you have everything to gain by being yourself.
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