outlaw4l Posted September 22, 2010 Posted September 22, 2010 This is only my second thread ever posting here and you guys have been great. If you want to catch up on the full story you can read my previous post that I put up a couple of days ago called "what are her motives for me". This chick is so hot she models on the side, has a great job & super personality, basically the perfect girlfriend type. I felt like how I soooo lucked out and landed a catch! But here's the new twist to the story and here is why I feel so played. Last week we were talking about how lame the dating site we met on was etc. and we lucked out meeting each other. So she goes to me out of the blue ohh by the way I deleted my profile because there were too many weirdos out there bothering me, etc. Me being an idiot thought she was just using that as an "excuse" and wanted to delete it because we met. I haven't logged in mine for a couple of weeks and I decide to delete mine 2 days ago and tell her about I tell her about it and she is like "oh cool" but doesn't say much else. Now yesterday something told me to check to see if hers is still deleted. Now I mispelled it by accident and what do you know she has a NEW active profile under a name with one word spelled different! It has a couple of new pics and the wording in her profile is a little different! What are the odds of me mispelling that and finding this? Lol just my luck. So I recheck and type her old profile name spelled the right way and it says account deleted! Retype the new name in and bang not only is it active but she was logged in today! Now I feel disrespected because this girl never told me she made a new profile. She has the nerve to text me this morning saying I really hope to see you this weekend if you are free and has all these events and plans that she has been inviting me to that are coming up within the next month. I know shes not my girl and we've only been talking about 2 months now but still we are having sex and I guess I've caught feelings! I don't know if I should tell her I found the new profile she setup. Or is it none of my business? I just wish she was upfront with me because I stopped talking to a couple of other people I was talking with and deleted my account too. Wow I soo hate game players. I'm a good looking guy and had plenty of options on there that I tossed away for this girl but I guess I'm lost and confused now What do I do?
TaraMaiden Posted September 22, 2010 Posted September 22, 2010 Oh yeah, you tell her all right! "Deleted my profile on *that site* today.... oh, I found your new profile by the way....." Leave it there.... And wait to see what she responds with.....
Confusedalways Posted September 22, 2010 Posted September 22, 2010 just echoing everyone else-- Tara gave great advice.
Author outlaw4l Posted September 22, 2010 Author Posted September 22, 2010 Yeah I guess I just have to man up and be like by the way I found your new profile! I didn't know since I wasn't officially her boyfriend if I had the right to say anything to her about it. Want to hear something funny, in her new profile it ends with looking for someone who doesn't play games! Lol how ironic!!!!
TaraMaiden Posted September 22, 2010 Posted September 22, 2010 Well, keep that to yourself, and see what she says.... If she accuses you of snooping or spying on her, tell her that no, but you're like her. "Looking for someone who doesn't play games".....
Gold Pile Posted September 22, 2010 Posted September 22, 2010 Don't forget whats important here.... Are you getting laid?
Author outlaw4l Posted September 22, 2010 Author Posted September 22, 2010 Well, keep that to yourself, and see what she says.... If she accuses you of snooping or spying on her, tell her that no, but you're like her. "Looking for someone who doesn't play games"..... Lol now that was a good one! thanks so much Tara. I guess I'm trying to find any humor out of this that I can so I don't get too down about it! Thanks again so much.
Author outlaw4l Posted September 22, 2010 Author Posted September 22, 2010 Don't forget whats important here.... Are you getting laid? yeah I definitely am getting laid and the sex is great. why?
TaraMaiden Posted September 22, 2010 Posted September 22, 2010 he just thinks getting your kicks should be the priority. He's just jeshin' ya.... Some of his threads are a scream. Fantasy-land doesn't cover it...... Anyway, you really have to let us know how it goes with Miss FickleWoman....
Author outlaw4l Posted September 23, 2010 Author Posted September 23, 2010 he just thinks getting your kicks should be the priority. He's just jeshin' ya.... Some of his threads are a scream. Fantasy-land doesn't cover it...... Anyway, you really have to let us know how it goes with Miss FickleWoman.... Well she calls me last night, acting very sweet, saying how she can't wait to see me this weekend. As we're talking I decide this isn't the right time to bring it up. I actually brought up the dating site and she changed the subject rather quickly. Mind you as we,re talking it syays she is online now! Ohhh no two can play at this game I have decided! I am going to mess with her a little bit lol! And in the next week or so I am going to pull her card when we're in person because the look on her face will be priceless!!
TaraMaiden Posted September 23, 2010 Posted September 23, 2010 well, consider in your mind whether you really are worried whether this goes anywhere or not.... it sounds to me as if any affection you may have for her is evaporating and being replaced by a desire for playfulness, and mild revenge..... Take it easy, and just make sure you can look at yourself in the mirror in the mornings.... Have fun! Keep us (i.e., me!) posted!!
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