Tiberius Posted September 22, 2010 Posted September 22, 2010 Hi I am seeing a girl right now who is heavily involved into bodybuilding and a black belt in jiu jitsu. I on the other hand am very involved in yoga. She is taller and way stronger. I guess we are a normal couple mostly, except the roles are pretty much reversed. Are any guys, girls on here in a similiar relationship? What made you pick your partner? And was it just a fad for you, wanting to be with a guy who is at least your equal after some time, or is he the type of guy you prefer?
tman666 Posted September 22, 2010 Posted September 22, 2010 I'll be honest and say that I'd feel like my manhood was threatened by dating a girl that was physically stronger than me. This isn't to say that I don't like the strong girls. My girlfriend is actually also my lifting partner. As a couple, if you're comfortable with each others' physical traits, then I don't see how it matters. Maybe she could give yoga a shot and maybe you could give lifting and jiu jitsu a shot. If you feel like you guys need to be a little more equal physically, then perhaps you need to bulk up a bit. It wouldn't be fair to her to resent her down the road for being the more physically imposing half.
Author Tiberius Posted September 22, 2010 Author Posted September 22, 2010 No I dont want to close the gap between us. Even if I tried I dont think I could. I just wondered why a strong tall girl into bodybuilding and martial arts would go for a guy who is pretty much the opposite of her and if it will last or if she is going to want an "equal".
jamesum Posted September 22, 2010 Posted September 22, 2010 For me the problem would only be the height part.
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