Eclypse Posted September 22, 2010 Posted September 22, 2010 I've been dating my girlfriend for about 5 months now. I know it seem silly but I really feel like she could be the one. It feels like our love for each other grows each day. I always feel giddy and high when around her, and the smile on her face never leaves Sexually it is amazing as well. I rarely orgasm (my issue I think) but it is still mindblowingly intense and it feels very completing. We were each others firsts (for everything). Our families get along well and are friends. Her parents love me. We've known each other for a while now. We are of the same cultural background (eastern Europe) but that's not a deal make / break for me. We never get bored with each others company and can literally spend all day just cuddling and talking. I feel like we were meant to be. Everything it just so perfect. But everyone tells me that people our age should be out experimenting, and not getting tied down. I'm just wondering if it's too early to think about settling down with one person? I know we are pretty inexperienced, but we have yet to experience any roadblocks when it comes to personality clashes or anything. She tells me she can't imagine us breaking up, and neither can i frankly! I'd be really really upset if we did.
that girl Posted September 22, 2010 Posted September 22, 2010 I've known people who came home from a first date and said they thought they met the person they were going to marry. About half of them were right (which still surprises me). But everyone tells me that people our age should be out experimenting, and not getting tied down. How old are you exactly? Whether you're 19 or 90, if you are happy in the relationship I don't think you should even consider ending it because other people think you should be playing the field. Compatable people aren't that easy to find. I'm just wondering if it's too early to think about settling down with one person? I know we are pretty inexperienced, but we have yet to experience any roadblocks when it comes to personality clashes or anything. Again, it depends on how old you are and what you mean by "thinking of settling down." Thinking "I wonder if I could marry this person?" is different than going out and buying a ring. I think any couple should wait 12 months before considering getting engaged and of you're under 22, I would make that at least 3 years because it takes time to get settled in your grown up life.
Author Eclypse Posted September 22, 2010 Author Posted September 22, 2010 Thanks . I actually didn't come home from our first date thinking she'd be the one. I actually wasn't sure if I wanted to go on another date. But then on our second date we had our first kiss and well.. as the saying goes, the rest is history! I just turned 20, and she is 21. Yep we are waiting, but we do discuss the future sometimes. We both seem to want the same things out of life. Of course being poor students living together or buying rings is absolutely out of the question for quite a while. She did seem to think it was unusual that I was a teenage guy who wanted to be monogamous
Knittress Posted September 22, 2010 Posted September 22, 2010 ... when you still feel that way 2-3 years later.
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