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I hooked up with this guy on Saturday. I've known him for a few months, and we've been flirtatious but also conversational for that time, though this has occurred sparingly. So I finally kissed him/fooled around with him Saturday, and he spent the night (we were both a lil tipsy).

 

So we made plans to hang out next Monday, and he texted me something silly yesterday. Can I/should I text him today or tomorrow? Just to say hey? I'm really super uncertain because I was in a long term relationship for three and a half years up until two months ago, so I haven't "dated" anyone in a long time. I don't want to cramp this guys style; I really like his personality, and he's super smart and cool.

 

I should add that he is a hot commodity, as in, facebook leads me to believe a lot of girls like this guy. I am uncertain of his intentions with me, but he seems to be, at the very least, really nice.

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I hooked up with this guy on Saturday. I've known him for a few months, and we've been flirtatious but also conversational for that time, though this has occurred sparingly. So I finally kissed him/fooled around with him Saturday, and he spent the night (we were both a lil tipsy).

 

So we made plans to hang out next Monday, and he texted me something silly yesterday. Can I/should I text him today or tomorrow? Just to say hey? I'm really super uncertain because I was in a long term relationship for three and a half years up until two months ago, so I haven't "dated" anyone in a long time. I don't want to cramp this guys style; I really like his personality, and he's super smart and cool.

 

I should add that he is a hot commodity, as in, facebook leads me to believe a lot of girls like this guy. I am uncertain of his intentions with me, but he seems to be, at the very least, really nice.

Don't overthink it. What's the harm in responding to his text without waiting a few days to do it? He's waiting for a response! Go ahead and say hi! He sounds open and approachable! :p

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