SadandConfusedWA Posted September 21, 2010 Posted September 21, 2010 Hey OP, Post a picture of yourself and I will tell you if you can do better than that
Lemontang Posted September 21, 2010 Posted September 21, 2010 If by any chance the 2nd pic is her I'd say it is more than just a bit old, I mean "Girlfriend that outfit is sooo 8 seasons ago" 'snaps fingers'.
Star Gazer Posted September 21, 2010 Posted September 21, 2010 Hey OP, Post a picture of yourself and I will tell you if you can do better than that Why would he do that? To see "if he can do better"? Really? Is appearance the method upon which we determine our value to another person? He probably doesn't validate himself by determining how hot of a chick he can get.
2sunny Posted September 21, 2010 Posted September 21, 2010 did she send you additional other pictures? i've not ever seen a "fashion show" on a cruise before... do they actually do that? why does it look like all the people around are men? usually a fashion show has mainly women watching... seems odd - something's "off" especially since the ONLY woman in the background looks like she's wearing the same dress!!! :laugh:
SadandConfusedWA Posted September 21, 2010 Posted September 21, 2010 Why would he do that? To see "if he can do better"? Really? Is appearance the method upon which we determine our value to another person? He probably doesn't validate himself by determining how hot of a chick he can get. Actually, as much as we hate it - initally YES. Appearance will get someone interested, personality will keep them interested.
Star Gazer Posted September 21, 2010 Posted September 21, 2010 Appearance will get someone interested, personality will keep them interested. And how does the "do better" factor play into that equation?? It doesn't.
SadandConfusedWA Posted September 21, 2010 Posted September 21, 2010 Studies have repeatedly shown that people of similar attractivness tend to have longer lasting relationships.
Mme. Chaucer Posted September 21, 2010 Posted September 21, 2010 Why would he do that? To see "if he can do better"? Really? Is appearance the method upon which we determine our value to another person? He probably doesn't validate himself by determining how hot of a chick he can get. Well, in the case of the OP I'm afraid the hotness of the chick is all that matters. OP - I remember from another post of yours that you require your dates to be under 110 lbs. This woman is not under 110 lbs. Why even waste her time? I wonder how she'd like to know that her pictures are up here for revue? Not that it's wrong ... when you put your photos on a dating site you're liable for anything to happen with them.
LoveAintEverything Posted September 21, 2010 Posted September 21, 2010 Ask for more...girls have milllllllllllllions of pictures
Alexanda Posted September 22, 2010 Posted September 22, 2010 Maybe the first pic is from when she is younger. The third pic is too far away. Thats why I hate internet dating, you never know what you are really going to get.
Author alexlakeman Posted September 22, 2010 Author Posted September 22, 2010 Ahh, screw it.. I am going to invite her out to lunch next week and i'll report back, lol.. I took down the pics , just had em up for this thread.. I still believe in internet dating, just like anything in life, nothing's perfect
Ruby Slippers Posted September 22, 2010 Posted September 22, 2010 Agreed. The people comparing her to a model or Kate Moss in picture no.2? No. Yeah, I was gonna say, if #2 looks like a "model", then I look like a model.
Author alexlakeman Posted September 22, 2010 Author Posted September 22, 2010 Well, in the case of the OP I'm afraid the hotness of the chick is all that matters. OP - I remember from another post of yours that you require your dates to be under 110 lbs. This woman is not under 110 lbs. Why even waste her time? I wonder how she'd like to know that her pictures are up here for revue? Not that it's wrong ... when you put your photos on a dating site you're liable for anything to happen with them. You must have me mistaken... you can't judge the woman by the lbs... it all depends on the height... I'd be interested to see the thread I mentioned that, maybe I was drunk
Author alexlakeman Posted September 28, 2010 Author Posted September 28, 2010 Well I met her today... she was very pretty, perfect makeup, hair, lips , lipstick, eyes, eye liner, the way she dressed (coming from work).... ... oh, but she was about 20 lbs over on the heavy side, you could tell a little bit in the face, but definitely not a size 3-4, etc.. Convo? Hmm, neither here nor there, but that could've been my fault, as I was in a hurry,and seeing that she was chunky... She just texted me "so what did you think?" .... I am NOT going to tell her she was chunky.... so ladies what would you want to be told? or just ignore it? I took down the pics already, but she was more in the middle of the three pics, weight-wise...
Crazy Magnet Posted September 28, 2010 Posted September 28, 2010 "It was great meeting you but I didn't feel the spark I was looking for. Good luck in your search." And done.
redmelon Posted September 28, 2010 Posted September 28, 2010 why don't you say all the things you typed above that are positives? you said she is very pretty, are you not interested because she has a few extra pounds? Are you physically perfect?
Knittress Posted September 28, 2010 Posted September 28, 2010 why don't you say all the things you typed above that are positives? you said she is very pretty, are you not interested because she has a few extra pounds? Are you physically perfect? Oh boy. This thread is set to self-destruct in 5... 4...3...
Rorschach Posted September 28, 2010 Posted September 28, 2010 why don't you say all the things you typed above that are positives? you said she is very pretty, are you not interested because she has a few extra pounds? Are you physically perfect? No but he has the mind of an 18 year old frat boy in the body of a 40+. It's pretty well known at this point that the guy has no soul and is really just interested in using women and moving on. Look at the dude's avatar.
Author alexlakeman Posted September 28, 2010 Author Posted September 28, 2010 No but he has the mind of an 18 year old frat boy in the body of a 40+. It's pretty well known at this point that the guy has no soul and is really just interested in using women and moving on. Look at the dude's avatar. Not wanting to use women, if not I wouldn't give a crap, date her a few times, get laid and move on... been there / done that for years... I am specifically wanting a relationship at this point in my life.. I agree, i don't have the perfect body either, but that has never prevented me from seeking women with nice bodies ... If you notice, this is the second thread where I mention how to drop a woman gently, in the least hurtful way..
sanskrit Posted September 28, 2010 Posted September 28, 2010 "Had a good time, but felt something was missing. Best wishes in finding what you are looking for."
SadandConfusedWA Posted September 28, 2010 Posted September 28, 2010 Please respond to her and soon. the worst thing is when I text a guy and there is no response.
Author alexlakeman Posted September 28, 2010 Author Posted September 28, 2010 I just texted her... didn't feel like having her just hanging..
Recommended Posts