Laws of attraction

[RDawg]

What makes a girl fall out of love?

 

I recently came out of a 1 year relationship where my ex finally admitted to me that she lost interest in me and got bored with the relationship.

 

We had an amazing "honeymoon" phase of about 6 months - she was telling all her friends that I was the one. Then all of a sudden she starts walking around saying she has no interest in sex, and when I try and discuss it with her she says it's not you, it's me.

 

Having educated myself a bit I now realise that I did make myself too available to her, stopped being a challange and became clingy. Basically I made her the source of my hapiness and lost my inner game. I can understand that she became saturated and eventually just wanted out.

 

I can't help but wonder, if I could go back in time and backed off a bit, maybe having rejected her on the odd occaission when she wanted sex, if I couldn't have kept her attraction levels up. Or do you think a scenario where one person just falls out of love is doomed anyway?

 

Please share your experiences and thoughts.

 

Thank you.

R

[welikeincrowds]

There is only one "in love," but there are a million ways to fall out of it.

 

For that reason, there's little point in answering this question. The real point is that you continue to move forward, which it sounds like, for the most part, you are doing. Don't dwell; there's no point. A lesson like this shows you that your life is right on track.

[AD1980]

Allot of women are addicted to that initial rush of a new relationship and once that ends they lose interest and move on to another one

[GooseChaser]

Sometimes that can happen if the relationship becomes boring and predictable.

[AD1980]

Sometimes that can happen if the relationship becomes boring and predictable.

 

Thats all relationships, its called marriage