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To love someone?

 

I recently started a relationship with a guy I've known for about 5 years - we were never too close, as he's my brother's friend but I considered him a friend also. The thing is, I already (a month of dating) feel so strongly about him and I KNOW he probably feels even more strongly (he liked me those entire 5 years, this is his "dream come true" apparently)...I'm just not sure if it's too soon to be okay.

 

This relationship is kind of a huge deal, everyone (parents&friends) have expressed how they were just waiting for this to happen and how we must be so happy...some even think we'll get married. It kind of feels like a lot of pressure...like maybe I'm not really this awesome person who he's liked for 5 years and then when I fall in love with him, he'll decide he doesn't feel the same.

 

Is it too soon to love him or is it okay since I've known him for a long time? I really do like him despite feeling under pressure...is there anything I can do to not feel pressured/scared?

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:( :( :( :( :(

 

[i needed 10 characters...you know]

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