hest812 Posted September 20, 2010 Posted September 20, 2010 Hi! Im 27 years of age and been dating about 3 wonderful girls now. However, Im still keeping my options open till I find the perfect one. But, one of the girls I dated, a 26 year old teacher, I think she likes me a lot. Texting me "Miss u dear" almost everyday. Went out with her a few times and we really enjoyed being together; eating, walking around and watching a movie. She even talked about marriage and future kids with me! Haha! However, the sad thing is, I am not into her yet. I like her but I am still hoping for a better one... I mean she is a nice girl, but she is quite obese (still pretty), I don't think she will be able to conceive if I do eventually marry her... Guys, please advice, should I stay put with the teacher or just move on? I am at a loss here. Thank you kind souls of LoveShack!
that girl Posted September 20, 2010 Posted September 20, 2010 Break up with her. She deserves someone who really likes her, not someone who is hoping for someone better. I don't think she will be able to conceive if I do eventually marry her... Don't pretend this is some logical thing. You're just not into her. And considering the Haha! you're a little mean.
Fire Salamander Posted September 20, 2010 Posted September 20, 2010 Hi! Im 27 years of age and been dating about 3 wonderful girls now. However, Im still keeping my options open till I find the perfect one. But, one of the girls I dated, a 26 year old teacher, I think she likes me a lot. Texting me "Miss u dear" almost everyday. Went out with her a few times and we really enjoyed being together; eating, walking around and watching a movie. She even talked about marriage and future kids with me! Haha! However, the sad thing is, I am not into her yet. I like her but I am still hoping for a better one... I mean she is a nice girl, but she is quite obese (still pretty), I don't think she will be able to conceive if I do eventually marry her... Guys, please advice, should I stay put with the teacher or just move on? I am at a loss here. Thank you kind souls of LoveShack! I've been back and forth between nice guy and jerk. I think the proper thing to do would be to let her go, since you obviously have no intention of staying with her. In fact if you don't like her by now you probably never will.. It's bad to lead her on. However, I noticed whenever I have this type of mentality It's usually extremely detrimental. There's really no merit for being a good guy. I know this may sound morally and ethically wrong, but you should get with her and fool around until a better one comes along. Most women use men as placeholders all the time, you must complete the circle of life. Or else nature itself will self implode! This is a truth of life you must accept. Even to this day I still struggle myself. I always somehow revert back to my former nice guy self. That's when everything goes down hill... If I was in your situation, I'd probably tell her time is precious and you shouldn't waste it. But don't listen to me, listen to someone who has huge success with women. You know what he'd suggest... "I mean she is a nice girl, but she is quite obese" I also think this is the main reason why you don't want to get with her. Read my previous thread on 15 reasons why... Oh never mind it got deleted. Good luck on whichever path you take.
Fire Salamander Posted September 20, 2010 Posted September 20, 2010 Break up with her. She deserves someone who really likes her, not someone who is hoping for someone better. Don't pretend this is some logical thing. You're just not into her. And considering the Haha! you're a little mean. Don't listen to her OP. First tell her to stop stringing along all of her male friend orbiters. She knows what they want, but keeps them anyways. (A relationship not just sex) Why not tell her you two can be just friends and date other women at the same time? That way you won't be bogged down by any guilt that you're seeing two+ people at the same time. After all, there's no title. Haha just joking. I never have female friends, if we're not lovers they're not in my life.
BobSacamento Posted September 20, 2010 Posted September 20, 2010 I wouldn't see anything wrong with dating her and having fun and all that. But it has to be mutual. The "Miss u dear" kind of makes it seem like she isn't on the fence about you. It sounds like she's ready to be exclusive with you.
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