carealothugs Posted September 20, 2010 Posted September 20, 2010 Since i'm now dating and trying things I have another date lined up with a hotty I met online and were arrenging our first date for next weekend weve been on msn and texting alot I want this to work out and though he's an hour away I don't mind, anyway he seems really in to me even though we havent met yet and he always texts first esp in morning before work and during it on his breaks and he rang me first time the other day and we spoke for half an hour seeing as it was first time it was good and I wasn't nervous and he said I make him giggle even in text we nearly fell out over something stupid and I went go out on the pull then see if I care but to my surprize he didn't he said hes wanting to give me a chance and he doesn't judge before he meets them kinda thing. Anyway I don't want to mess this one up as i've got a good feeling, he's even spoke about everything including how many kids were going to have etc and asked me how i'd feel if he asked me to move in with him, type of holidays I like to go on it didn't even put me off before it proberly would, I don't want to wreck this on first date and want to impress him how far should I go? Should I dress normal? And not seem keen or seem keen I don't want this one to go I had a date 2 weeks ago the guy I thought I would like turns out I didn't when I met him he was too full on and too touchy esp for first date this one I seem comfy with before I even met him like i've knowen him for ages any ideas would help he's driving through and I said i'd offer to pay half petrol and wouldn't let me do it he went he's going to be spoiling me and asked me what flowers I like and no guy i've been on dates with have asked me that I get excieted when he texts or rings now (sad I know) but I think he can be the one
In The Green Posted September 20, 2010 Posted September 20, 2010 You've not been on one date yet and he's talking to you about kids and your feelings on possibly moving in together? Danger Will Robinson! Dress nice but I would calm down a bit and take things slow. Its good to have an open heart but use discernment.
witabix Posted September 20, 2010 Posted September 20, 2010 You've not been on one date yet and he's talking to you about kids and your feelings on possibly moving in together? Danger Will Robinson! Dress nice but I would calm down a bit and take things slow. Its good to have an open heart but use discernment. <Arms clanking and waving> One guy was too touchy feely on the first date, and this guy is talking about children? Sounds just a little creepy to me. If a woman I had never met started to go on about having kids with me I would probably not meet her ever.
Author carealothugs Posted September 20, 2010 Author Posted September 20, 2010 The last date with the guy who was "touchy feely" I wasn't attracted too on the date thats why it was weird for me, normaly i'd be scared if a guy brought the subject of kids up before a date but for some reason i'm not with this one it's a weird feeling but not a bad weird feeling.
witabix Posted September 20, 2010 Posted September 20, 2010 The last date with the guy who was "touchy feely" I wasn't attracted too on the date thats why it was weird for me, normaly i'd be scared if a guy brought the subject of kids up before a date but for some reason i'm not with this one it's a weird feeling but not a bad weird feeling. Oh well if you get a 'good weird' feeling than at least you are comfortable. But take note of In the Green's post. Its good to have an open heart but use discernment Be careful with your heart and have a good time.
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