Roxanna Posted September 20, 2010 Posted September 20, 2010 (edited) I think my bf was a little drunk when he said this. We were having a conversation that was a borderline argument and he (I think accidentally) said that someone at work had recently said something to him implying that he was a player because he was talking to me before breaking up with his then-gf. He said that this wasn't true. I tried to get more information from him, such as who said this and why they would say it, and he was pretty quick to change the subject and would only say he didn't know but he was mad about it, so I let it drop. One part of me thinks that if what this person said was true it happened a really long time ago and there's no point in bringing it up now. But, this kind of bothers me, and I want to know why on earth someone would be saying this to him, so long after the fact. We have fought about this particular girl in the past, so most likely, no matter how I bring this up, he would get defensive and it would turn into a fight. What would you do? Is there another option? Would it bother you to find out years after the fact that your bf started talking to you before ending his previous relationship? Edited September 20, 2010 by Roxanna
atlnay Posted September 21, 2010 Posted September 21, 2010 What would you do? Is there another option? Would it bother you to find out years after the fact that your bf started talking to you before ending his previous relationship? If I had an otherwise great relationship, more laughs than tears, great sex & fun times? Nah, it wouldn't bother me and I'd let it go.
Author Roxanna Posted September 24, 2010 Author Posted September 24, 2010 If I had an otherwise great relationship, more laughs than tears, great sex & fun times? Nah, it wouldn't bother me and I'd let it go. All this is true, and I did end up just letting it go. It's still in the back of my mind, though. The only reason someone from work would be bringing this up to my bf now, so long after the fact, is if the ex is trash talking him for some reason, as he works with some of her friends. I'm dying to know the details. I guess I'm a bit of a drama queen . This situation makes me feel a little uneasy.. I can't stand that people are talking about me and my relationship and he won't tell me why or who.
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