norske05 Posted September 17, 2010 Posted September 17, 2010 I've been seeing this guy for almost two months, he said he didnt want to put a title on us since he is recently divorced. the first month he was calling me and texting me on a regular basis, then once i asked where we stood with each other it was like things changed. he didnt text or call as often or want to see me as often. then this past saturday night i was too drunk to drive home so i called him to come get me, which he did but he didnt stay around. i told him we needed to talk sunday morning and i havent heard from him since then. i sent him a text last night and still no reply. what should i think of this or do? why would he just stop talking to me without a reason?
tigressA Posted September 17, 2010 Posted September 17, 2010 He's dropping a really big hint with this silence: He doesn't want to see or talk to you anymore. He started tapering off after you asked him where you two stood, and now he's completely disappeared on you. Sure, it's massively rude, but it's the way a lot of people go these days. Don't expect him to give you any form of closure; he's long gone. Just move on.
loverofloveandstuff Posted September 17, 2010 Posted September 17, 2010 He might've been put off by the 'we need need to talk'. He probably thinks you're going to bring up where you guys stand again (are you?) and that's scared him off. It sounds likes he's not that into you and things are getting too serious too fast for his liking. What did you send him in the text message? If it was something following up on the 'we need to talk' he's probably trying to avoid the topic of discussion.
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