raspy Posted September 16, 2010 Posted September 16, 2010 I hung out with him for 3 1/2 days and by the end of the 3 1/2 days he was like "oh you better leave so you can beat the traffic" so I was like "when do you want me to go" and he was like "whenever". Then he was like "im gonna take a shower" which pretty much meant you need to go now. Am I taking this too hard? I wasn't really sick of him..
counterman Posted September 16, 2010 Posted September 16, 2010 It sounds like maybe he was drained or something. It really depends. Just don't worry about it too much for now and go about things normally next time to see him. See how he responds to you.
atlnay Posted September 16, 2010 Posted September 16, 2010 Am I taking this too hard?[/QUote] yep & yep. Quick tip? Never be the one hinted to le@ve.
phineas Posted September 16, 2010 Posted September 16, 2010 I hung out with him for 3 1/2 days and by the end of the 3 1/2 days he was like "oh you better leave so you can beat the traffic" so I was like "when do you want me to go" and he was like "whenever". Then he was like "im gonna take a shower" which pretty much meant you need to go now. Am I taking this too hard? I wasn't really sick of him.. Is this the same BF that is banging his female "friend" on the weekends?
Feelin Frisky Posted September 16, 2010 Posted September 16, 2010 Yeah, don't take it hard. Absence makes the heart grow fonder and it's good to put some measures of space into a relationship IMO. Like the other poster said, ya don't want to be the one to be nudged out the door. So, maybe you should plan an exit limit.
GooseChaser Posted September 16, 2010 Posted September 16, 2010 Sometimes people do need their space. No worries.
phineas Posted September 16, 2010 Posted September 16, 2010 Guys, do a search for raspy's threads on her "boyfriend". I think it will help you to better answer her questions.
Enema Posted September 16, 2010 Posted September 16, 2010 You were together full time for 3 and a half days? I need space after half a day.
Feelin Frisky Posted September 16, 2010 Posted September 16, 2010 Hmmm..sick of you. Reminds of an old black and white film drama where "I'm sick of you, sick of you, do your hear?" eminates from the lips of the damsal in distress. Now, after three and a half days, is a fella really thinking "I'm sick of you, sick of you, do you hear? Pack your grip and get the f__ out!" I would tend to think that would really depend upon on what kind of company the OPer has been. Hmmmm, yeah......
stellaluna Posted September 16, 2010 Posted September 16, 2010 you have overstayed your welcome if you have to be asked to leave after 3.5 days. Dont let it get to the point that he has to hint for you to go because now hes not going to be thinking about asking you back to soon.
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