xpressyaself22 Posted September 15, 2010 Posted September 15, 2010 Bear with me, this just may be a little long. I decided that it was time to put myself back out there and start dating, so I joined match.com. Right off the bat, I meet two guys, one who emails me introducing himself and seemed really nice, I ask him how he's liking match.com and he tells me that he joined because he's dating someone right now that just admitted to him, that she's dating other people, he's not happy about it, but he's still with here and has now decided to do the same. I know it happens, and it's okay until you becomes exclusive, but knowing this right off the bat, before we've even gotten a chance to know each other makes me feel like if we were ever to meet and have a connection, I'd just be payback to her for dating other guys. Guy #2 nice guy, in the military and just got stationed out here. We've been talking online for a few days when he tells me that he is trying really hard to only be stationed here for a year and that he wants to go overseas, but he hopes that if we're in love we would get married and not have to be apart... I don't want to read to much into things, but those of you who have dated online or met your spouses online, what would you do in these cases. See them as a red flag, or go with it?
alexlakeman Posted September 15, 2010 Posted September 15, 2010 Red flags. Forget them. Believe me you'll start getting a lot of emails from guys soon enough; at least that's what I hear.
Pyro Posted September 15, 2010 Posted September 15, 2010 Guy #1 has red flags galore. Can't be trusted at all. Guy#2 sounds clingy. Avoid them both and try again.
SadandConfusedWA Posted September 15, 2010 Posted September 15, 2010 Uh NO NO NO NO. Join OKCupid and meet some decent guys (they should really be paying me and Shadow for this )
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