irc333 Posted September 14, 2010 Posted September 14, 2010 I've been on the other perspective where I would know of a woman in some kind of long dist. relationship, but she'd go out with us and hang, but she'd flirt with other men. Me and some people went to dinner once, I kind of had a crush on her, and about 4 of us went out dancing. I didn't really bother pursuing her though, because she was involved. She asked me to dance with her, and she also danced solo with a strange man and he let her feel her up on the dance floor. I was thinking (hm, maybe they broke up?), because that was the only reason I could think she would be flirting with other men. Apparently she takes trips to another part of the country to see her family and her "boyfriend" happens to be there. I wasn't sure. So I asked her about her dating situation, and she still sees her boyfriend when she takes trips up north. And I said, "Oh, okay, I thought you guys were broken up, because the way you were dancing with that guy when we were out" And she kind of backpeddles and says, "Well, I'm confused right now, so I don't know what's going on." I thought, "Oooookay" That being said, have you known people in LDR's to start caring less about their sig. other who is far, far away, and start flirting with others? I think you KNOW an LDR is not working out, when you start seeing said person flirting with other people or letting them feel you up, right?
naya1 Posted September 14, 2010 Posted September 14, 2010 hehe was in an ldr for 3 years , been asked by male co workers for drinks, dinners and one bravely asked for ..u know. i turned them all down. cheating is just really scary for me and i have learned my lesson from the past..i learned it the hard way. i wouldnt say it was easy to turn them down. it gets lonely sometimes. but it doesnt get THAT lonely..if u know what i mean.
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