Eclipse11 Posted September 13, 2010 Posted September 13, 2010 Hey everyone...I went on a date six days ago with a charming man - we had a good time, kissed a bit, walked along the river arm in arm, the conversation flowed... There was a bad catch though - at the start of the date, he said I was too nice to lead up the garden path, he needed to be honest with me, he felt I was so attractive when we met he was compelled to ask me out but he has been seeing somebody for the past few weeks though it's nothing serious He initiated everything, he said he thought we should go out again, we kissed goodnight, he said he would text but in six days I have heard nothing! Sounds like I will not now, wouldn't you say? When I came back to work day after the date there was an email in my inbox from him, however he sent it before the date and it was old, so no need to reply... I'm fairly disappointed but understand that he may be seeing somebody else Do you think there's any chance he may eventually call? Honestly?
GooseChaser Posted September 13, 2010 Posted September 13, 2010 Hey everyone...I went on a date six days ago with a charming man - we had a good time, kissed a bit, walked along the river arm in arm, the conversation flowed... There was a bad catch though - at the start of the date, he said I was too nice to lead up the garden path, he needed to be honest with me, he felt I was so attractive when we met he was compelled to ask me out but he has been seeing somebody for the past few weeks though it's nothing serious He initiated everything, he said he thought we should go out again, we kissed goodnight, he said he would text but in six days I have heard nothing! Sounds like I will not now, wouldn't you say? When I came back to work day after the date there was an email in my inbox from him, however he sent it before the date and it was old, so no need to reply... I'm fairly disappointed but understand that he may be seeing somebody else Do you think there's any chance he may eventually call? Honestly? Don't wait for him to call you, then! Call him!
sagitarrius Posted September 13, 2010 Posted September 13, 2010 hey everyone...i went on a date six days ago with a charming man - we had a good time, kissed a bit, walked along the river arm in arm, the conversation flowed... There was a bad catch though - at the start of the date, he said i was too nice to lead up the garden path, he needed to be honest with me, he felt i was so attractive when we met he was compelled to ask me out but he has been seeing somebody for the past few weeks though it's nothing serious he initiated everything, he said he thought we should go out again, we kissed goodnight, he said he would text but in six days i have heard nothing! Sounds like i will not now, wouldn't you say? When i came back to work day after the date there was an email in my inbox from him, however he sent it before the date and it was old, so no need to reply... I'm fairly disappointed but understand that he may be seeing somebody else do you think there's any chance he may eventually call? Honestly? please dont waste your time waiting on this guy.its clear hes not interested or else he would be calling you the next day. If you sound desperate when and if he does call hell think he has u in da palm of his hand.let him know you have many more options and you dont like having your time wasted.you must be firm with these types of men.
CLC2008 Posted September 13, 2010 Posted September 13, 2010 Hey everyone...I went on a date six days ago with a charming man - we had a good time, kissed a bit, walked along the river arm in arm, the conversation flowed... There was a bad catch though - at the start of the date, he said I was too nice to lead up the garden path, he needed to be honest with me, he felt I was so attractive when we met he was compelled to ask me out but he has been seeing somebody for the past few weeks though it's nothing serious He initiated everything, he said he thought we should go out again, we kissed goodnight, he said he would text but in six days I have heard nothing! Sounds like I will not now, wouldn't you say? When I came back to work day after the date there was an email in my inbox from him, however he sent it before the date and it was old, so no need to reply... I'm fairly disappointed but understand that he may be seeing somebody else Do you think there's any chance he may eventually call? Honestly? Why would you want him too? Anyone who would say "you are too nice to lead up the garden path", should be an automatic . Who says that?
stellaluna Posted September 13, 2010 Posted September 13, 2010 Trust me if I like a chick I keep in regular contact with her. Sounds like he was just using lines on you.
atlnay Posted September 13, 2010 Posted September 13, 2010 There is no "may be" about it OP, he said he is seeing someone else, he may have downplayed the seriousness, but he told you he was. You may hear from him again, but you need to get a better idea of what sort of relationship he is in before you are swooned by him.
Author Eclipse11 Posted September 13, 2010 Author Posted September 13, 2010 Hmmm...I definitely don't want to call him - I don't want to look like a desperado! Not when he's seeing somebody... But I think I may hear from him again, I like to say to myself that he hasn't called, not because he didn't like me, but because he is involved with somebody else, that makes me feel better about it But I can let this go okay...after all the date was decent, makes me feel more confident in the future... And yes Altnay I swoon far too easily...like instantly! But I'm prepared to think I may never hear from him again...we'll see though
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