BlindSidedMale Posted September 13, 2010 Posted September 13, 2010 I know this is a typical question that most people ask and the answer is normally, "move on." But I really think that there is something left that can bring my relationship back with my ex-girlfriend. Here is a little information about her and I: We are both nineteen year old teenagers in college. We dated for a little over a year and 7 months. We took a break at one point 7 months ago because I had smoked weed twice behind her back (she is very, very anti-drug). During the break, I knew we would end up okay so i never did anything special for her, which I do regret now. We would constantly hang out and I would never plan events for us to do (i.e. - go to the beach, out of town, etc.). She has been the best girlfriend that I have ever had (first one that hasn't cheated on me) and I became way too comfortable with our relationship. I knew that whatever I did she would always be there, but she finally became fed up with my lazy self and dumped me a little over a week ago. She said she wanted space to think about everything to see if she wanted to try and work things out between us. During the week, I sent her 'nice' texts just to wish her a good day and stuff like that. I didn't 'shower' her with texts, flowers, or cards. Now that the week passed, she told me that she had time to think about everything and thinks that we should move on from each other and maybe one day in the future we can try again if things fall into place. I regret not showing how much i truly loved her while we dated, but rest assured that we sparked something that I've never felt before. I know the common statements, such as, "You are young, it's only the beginning" and stuff like that. But I want her back, I know I can show her how I can REALLY treat her, she is simply amazing. I'm open for advice\feedback\questions. I would just like to know what I can do from here on out to show her that I have changed into a better person and will keep it this way!
phineas Posted September 13, 2010 Posted September 13, 2010 did you have sex with her while on the break?
Author BlindSidedMale Posted September 13, 2010 Author Posted September 13, 2010 Last time we had sex was 2 days before we broke up (hardcore in my honest opinion). We've been on a strict no contact schedule since last Saturday, little over a week ago.
robdrm32 Posted September 13, 2010 Posted September 13, 2010 I regret not showing how much i truly loved her while we dated, but rest assured that we sparked something that I've never felt before. Just tell her that, and leave it be. It's in her hands now and you can't control her decision so I think it's best you tell her how you feel (what you said above) and don't contact her. Let her come to you.
Author BlindSidedMale Posted September 13, 2010 Author Posted September 13, 2010 Thanks for the reply! She knows how I feel about the situation, now. It's just that, for the past week I have been sitting at home (work, school, homework, etc) and she has been out partying with friends. I'm hoping that once the whole party factor dies down for her that she will realize that I do truly care for her.
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