Kage111 Posted September 12, 2010 Posted September 12, 2010 I've been dating this girl for over 4 months now. We had been friends for over 3 years prior to our decision to start dating and for the first month, things were incredible. I had never been so happy, we were always together, she thoroughly enjoyed spending time with me. She even stayed with me for a few weeks (During which, she would jump me 2-3 times a day for some "fun";)). Then she decided to go home to her parents since it was the summer and she hadn't seen them in a while. Sadly, since she lives overseas, I couldn't just drive over to her house whenever I felt like it. We both visited each other for a weekend here and there, and we would always video chat every night, and things were still seemingly going great. Then it was like something just clicked inside of her. Suddenly every little thing I did seemed to make her incredibly irritated. As soon as she came back to me, she couldn't wait to go back home. She never seems to want to spend time with me and she's always "busy". And I don't mean to sound sleazy, but it's been over 3 weeks since the last time we had sex. Now, I feel I have been next to perfect to this girl. I'd do anything for her. I literally helped her move three times. Since she doesn't have a car, I drive her everywhere. When we go out I always pay, I never put her down, I always tell her how beautiful she is... It wouldn't be as bad if she was like this from the get go, but she was perfect when we started, and 4 months doesn't seem like long enough to fall into a slump. We talked about it and even she doesn't know why she feels so different. I just want things to go back to how they were. She still tells me she loves me all the time... Any ideas?
Pfiend101 Posted September 12, 2010 Posted September 12, 2010 Honestly this sounds like my ex. Turns out she had been talking to an EX and they ended up getting back together. It sounds to me as though shes distancing herself getting ready for the break. My ex told me I was everything she wanted the same day she broke up with me. Listen not to the words.. pay attention to the actions. Keep your head up.
phineas Posted September 12, 2010 Posted September 12, 2010 Honestly this sounds like my ex. Turns out she had been talking to an EX and they ended up getting back together. It sounds to me as though shes distancing herself getting ready for the break. My ex told me I was everything she wanted the same day she broke up with me. Listen not to the words.. pay attention to the actions. Keep your head up. Yep, almost ex-wife acted this way when she was cheating. when she stopped cheating for a little while everything went back to normal. when she started cheating again it changed back.
Author Kage111 Posted October 2, 2010 Author Posted October 2, 2010 Ha, you guys were right. I wish you weren't but it happens. Oh wells...
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