K'aycie Posted September 12, 2010 Posted September 12, 2010 So I am no longer dating the guy I've mentioned from my previous posts. I broke things off, because he told me he wasn't interested in a relationship, yet gave me conflicting impression that he was (plus, he failed to make any solid attempt to spend time with me after we were physically intimate for the first time). He did say that he'd eventually call, just to clear things up, but that never happened. In any event, not too long after, he befriends me on FB. I then see, that he is in a relationship with someone. ???? Now. Who in their right mind, would reject someone, then befriend them, for them to see that they are in a relationship with someone new? Then not too long after, they "break up", and I receive some kind of game invitation. I soon after deleted him, for obvious reasons. But, his thought process behind it, is by far completely screwed up. He is a few years younger then me, so maybe that explains his behavior, but who acts like that?
tigressA Posted September 12, 2010 Posted September 12, 2010 Who acts like that? Apparently, he does.
GooseChaser Posted September 12, 2010 Posted September 12, 2010 On the plus side, seeing that he had posted "in a relationship" (with someone else) made your situation with him much clearer for you.
Author K'aycie Posted September 12, 2010 Author Posted September 12, 2010 On the plus side, seeing that he had posted "in a relationship" (with someone else) made your situation with him much clearer for you. Yes, it did. More so, did he think after they "broke up", that sending me some dumb invitation shortly after would make things all better? Or think that flirting in front of me, was the proper thing to do? Flirt all you want, I could care less, at least be man enough to do it behind closed doors.
Author K'aycie Posted September 12, 2010 Author Posted September 12, 2010 Just a question.... Why care? Hi Tara. Interesting that a question like that, can really open one's eyes. Why care? I suppose its because I fell in love with someone, who wasn't what they pretended to be. I suppose it's because I was incredibly hurt by the way he treated me after the fact. I suppose it's because someone close to me, introduced us, and I'm like "why, why would you set me up with this person". I consider myself fairly reasonable, if he had just said to me from the get-go, everything he said after the "what are we" discussion, my reaction would have been much different. But, he didn't, and his contact levels with me were so consistent and constant, hence why I felt led on. I gave him the benefit of the doubt with a lot of things, even after the fact. But no, I no longer do.
phineas Posted September 12, 2010 Posted September 12, 2010 It's really simple. The OP is one of many women he knows. He is giving a shout out to his ladies & one of them is bound to answer the call.
Author K'aycie Posted September 12, 2010 Author Posted September 12, 2010 It's really simple. The OP is one of many women he knows. He is giving a shout out to his ladies & one of them is bound to answer the call. Yeah, it certainly makes sense...at least now it does.
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