wjg23g Posted September 10, 2010 Posted September 10, 2010 Hey LS I've known this girl for about 8 months, we're friendly with each other, have many of the same friends & a couple classes together. Shortly after I met her, I asked her to have dinner to talk about some school stuff, she said yes & later asked me if this was "just a friends thing" & I said yea. She bailed because bc of a test or other work. Couple months go by I asked her to do something in the summer but she was away. I was thinking of asking her to watch my golf team play a match on Monday. Not sure if I should even bother though. Perhaps things have changed over the past couple months. She was just getting out of a relationship when I met her. Thoughts?
carhill Posted September 10, 2010 Posted September 10, 2010 Since this is in the Romantic_Dating area, I presume you want to date her. If so, asking her to watch you chase a little white ball around some nice green areas isn't exactly a date. Ask her out to a dinner date and if the 'friends' thing comes up again, be clear that it's a date. 'Nope, this isn't a friend thing, it's a date thing. Dress appropriately <wink>'. Maybe a nice dinner with her will inspire your handicap
robdrm32 Posted September 10, 2010 Posted September 10, 2010 yeah if you ask a girl out with romantic intentions, and tell her its just as friends, thats not a good start. she may have got the vibe you weren't into her and didn't want to hang out as "friends"
Confused100 Posted September 10, 2010 Posted September 10, 2010 Since this is in the Romantic_Dating area, I presume you want to date her. If so, asking her to watch you chase a little white ball around some nice green areas isn't exactly a date. Ask her out to a dinner date and if the 'friends' thing comes up again, be clear that it's a date. 'Nope, this isn't a friend thing, it's a date thing. Dress appropriately <wink>'. Maybe a nice dinner with her will inspire your handicap Exactly what I was thinking! Ask her out and make it clear that it's more than just a friend thing. You haven't really 'asked her out' yet.
Author wjg23g Posted September 11, 2010 Author Posted September 11, 2010 ok- i'll give it another try then. question- should i wait til next week to ask her in person or get in touch w/ her this weekend? if i did this weekend, it'd have to be by email as I lost my phone the other day. also, how putting together watching a little golf & dinner, or just dinner? I kind of like the 2 together.
Raderick Posted September 11, 2010 Posted September 11, 2010 ok- i'll give it another try then. question- should i wait til next week to ask her in person or get in touch w/ her this weekend? if i did this weekend, it'd have to be by email as I lost my phone the other day. also, how putting together watching a little golf & dinner, or just dinner? I kind of like the 2 together. Hunt her down (given it's not a place like her work, at her home or at some other private place) as soon as you possibly could, and ask her. Just do dinner. If you live near a body of water, I suggest picnic with a bottle of wine!
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