guarded Posted September 10, 2010 Posted September 10, 2010 if a girl sends you a tasteful sexy/half naked photo via email/text what would you think? we're sort of fwb... he asked me to hang out a few times now but as timing would have it i had to kinda decline. i wanna show him im still interested and clearly get his attention is this the right way to go?
Arbitrariness Posted September 10, 2010 Posted September 10, 2010 If it was a genuinely tasteful and sexy photo i'd say it'd be a turn on. It really depends on the kind of attention that you want though. If you only want to pursue a fwb situation with him, i can't see anything wrong with it.
Author guarded Posted September 10, 2010 Author Posted September 10, 2010 its not slutty right? i intend it to turn him on and make him just wanna jump me! what could i say with the photo? and iphone's dont send photos so i guess i have to send it via email.. do i then send him an sms to say i sent him a little something?
Tony T Posted September 10, 2010 Posted September 10, 2010 The circumstance you describe is a completely inappropriate time to be sending an semi nude photo of yourself. He could take it a number of ways but mostly he would think it weird and the timing strange. There are so many thousands of ways of showing a person you are interested in them besides sending them a half naked photo. Don't you think he will figure you do this for lots of other guys as well? Why don't you go about this the regular way? Give him a call, or text him, and see if he wants to go out for coffee, a drink or for lunch. Ask him to accompany you to some event the two of you may like. If I received a photo like that, I would text the person back and ask them how much they charged per hour.
Fouts Posted September 10, 2010 Posted September 10, 2010 its not slutty right? i intend it to turn him on and make him just wanna jump me! what could i say with the photo? and iphone's dont send photos so i guess i have to send it via email.. do i then send him an sms to say i sent him a little something? If that's your intention, then send whatever pic(s) you want ! Tell him, Yes, it tastes as good as it looks
bobdole Posted September 10, 2010 Posted September 10, 2010 While your looking at the pic hit the bottom left button and choose mms. That should send the pic via text
Tony T Posted September 10, 2010 Posted September 10, 2010 its not slutty right? i intend it to turn him on and make him just wanna jump me! what could i say with the photo? and iphone's dont send photos so i guess i have to send it via email.. do i then send him an sms to say i sent him a little something? If all you want is to turn him on a make him JUST wanna jump you, GREAT IDEA...maybe. It really depends on what kind of guy he is. There are some guys who would not find this a cool thing...but probably a whole lot more who would jump anything whether they got a picture or not. And yes, you should say something like: "Wanna jump me?" Make your intentions clear. Good luck!
Star Gazer Posted September 10, 2010 Posted September 10, 2010 iphone's dont send photos Uh, yes they do. I have an iPhone and I get/send pics all the time...? Just got one of a friend's new car...
loverofloveandstuff Posted September 10, 2010 Posted September 10, 2010 Would you be okay with all his mates seeing (or/and being sent) the photo? Because that's probably what's going to happen.
atlnay Posted September 10, 2010 Posted September 10, 2010 if you solely want his sexual attention, you dont even need to send a pic, just a "so when are we hookin up?" text will do the trick! Lol...but some advice on sending the pic: unless this man will be your hubby one day, keep in mind one day you may REGRET sending it to "him", and he may send it or post it however he wishes. That said: dont show your face in the pics or identifiable marks. Oh and be sure to ask him to return the favor
Kelly0900 Posted September 10, 2010 Posted September 10, 2010 Umm, as a girl myself I wouldn't really take to it if I were you.. I don't know, what's she doing taking such photos anyway? How do you know it's only you whos seen the photo? I'm afraid many girls are just.. sorry for the vulgar term.. sluts. However, there are many women out there who are just fantastic. :-)
rlindzie Posted September 10, 2010 Posted September 10, 2010 I think it is too soon to be sending thoes kinds of pics to him. especially if you havent had sex yet! i mean i think i would rather a guy see me naked in person first rather than giving the milk for free. And like other ppl have said he will show his friends and possibly post it online and you would be really embaressed then. You can let him know you are still interested in a different way, like idk maybe saying your interested in him and want to go out sometime.He could see that pic and think you might be a loose woman and do this thing all the time with guys. And if you ever do want something more than just sex with him it's best that he not think of you as a sexual object.
make me believe Posted September 11, 2010 Posted September 11, 2010 Oh geez....I really hate this trend of girls sending naked pics to guys they hardly even know or aren't in a serious relationship with. It seems sooo desperate. If you are ok with all of his friends seeing it, and all of them judging you (both your body & your character, because they WILL consider it 'slutty'), then go ahead. I can almost guarantee you that as soon as he gets the pic he'll immediately turn to whoever he's with & show them the pic & they will have a good laugh at your expense. And later he'll show it to more of his friends & have another laugh. If you want to show him you're interested, then hang out with him! I mean, give me a break. Sending naked pictures is now a requirement to show your interest?? 1
Serenitynow Posted September 11, 2010 Posted September 11, 2010 if a girl sends you a tasteful sexy/half naked photo via email/text what would you think? Girls that participate in sexting are trash in my opinion. we're sort of fwb... he asked me to hang out a few times now but as timing would have it i had to kinda decline. I chuckle how women generalize things, as in the above "we're sort of". they usually dont like to put concrete labels on their actions. How does one not know if they are a FWB? .
alexlakeman Posted September 11, 2010 Posted September 11, 2010 Send him a sexy pic dressed, just showing some sexy cleavage, your face all nice an pretty made up, with a sexy smile .. and add an appropriate text... hmm I went back to my recent texts from an fwb, and she sent the following text, and the message was very clear, even without a pic, BUT, I pic would've been the icing on the cake ... Here's what she said: "My thoughts and horny mind are thinking of you"...
alexlakeman Posted September 11, 2010 Posted September 11, 2010 Girls that participate in sexting are trash in my opinion. ============ . WOW, welcome to 2010... Sexting is very sexy and most people love it... it gets the juices flowing throughout the day while your sexting and then after work or school, bam
Author guarded Posted September 11, 2010 Author Posted September 11, 2010 Lol. Thanks bobdole! Didn’t realise I my MMS wasn’t turned on! I think it is too soon to be sending thoes kinds of pics to him. especially if you havent had sex yet! We’ve done it once.. well tried! He thrusted once and came way too quick, so I don’t know if we could even count that? Lol. Girls that participate in sexting are trash in my opinion. I chuckle how women generalize things, as in the above "we're sort of". they usually dont like to put concrete labels on their actions. How does one not know if they are a FWB? Ouch! Its not like I plan on baring it all! I just thought it could be a way to turn him on…. Ok.. I worded it wrong. We are fwb.. we’ve hooked up twice. Send him a sexy pic dressed, just showing some sexy cleavage, your face all nice an pretty made up, with a sexy smile .. and add an appropriate text... hmm I went back to my recent texts from an fwb, and she sent the following text, and the message was very clear, even without a pic, BUT, I pic would've been the icing on the cake ... Here's what she said: "My thoughts and horny mind are thinking of you"... Thank you! That was a great suggestion! Having been a recipient of a sexy text… would u think its trashy for a girl to send something so risqué? We have this joke that he seems to message/call when im in the shower…so I thought I could send him a photo that alludes to that and say something along the lines of: thanks for making my showers a little longer these days ?
alexlakeman Posted September 11, 2010 Posted September 11, 2010 Lol.............. We’ve done it once.. well tried! He thrusted once and came way too quick, so I don’t know if we could even count that? Lol. ============= Ouch! Its not like I plan on baring it all! I jus Having been a recipient of a sexy text… would u think its trashy for a girl to send something so risqué? We have this joke that he seems to message/call when im in the shower…so I thought I could send him a photo that alludes to that and say something along the lines of: thanks for making my showers a little longer these days ? The girl is the one that sent ME that message and it was great.. So, I have a q, since he "thrusted once and came", would that "count" i a woman's "how many men I slept with?"? LOL, Just trying to see if it would be one of the times that the numbers get skewed, lol.. The shower text is cool, send a pic of the shower (shower curtain closed, hot water running so it's steamy, with a message... Hmm the one you said is good or something like "It's getting hot in here, where are you?" or something like that ... Let go find another text from a fwb, and give you some more ideas, lol.. brb... hmm, not too many lately... "kissing you was delicious. Can't wait to see you again".....
SincereOnlineGuy Posted September 12, 2010 Posted September 12, 2010 Girls that participate in sexting are trash I chuckle how women generalize... Thankfully nobody has to make these things up... It's all real at Loveshack!
SincereOnlineGuy Posted September 12, 2010 Posted September 12, 2010 if a girl sends you a tasteful sexy/half naked photo via email/text what would you think? When considered from the female vantage point (to the best of my ability, that is): You probably shouldn't send him any nipple shots (or any visible muff) But if you send a pic, that is clearly you, taken from an odd-seeming angle, without crossing the plane of any of the above, then take your best shot (in more ways than one).
Author guarded Posted September 12, 2010 Author Posted September 12, 2010 The girl is the one that sent ME that message and it was great..... lol. most men would right? out of curiousity have u ever sent one back? So, I have a q, since he "thrusted once and came", would that "count" i a woman's "how many men I slept with?"? LOL, Just trying to see if it would be one of the times that the numbers get skewed, lol.. haha i guess so! well it was literally in and out so you couldn't really count that right? The shower text is cool, send a pic of the shower (shower curtain closed, hot water running so it's steamy, with a message... Hmm the one you said is good or something like "It's getting hot in here, where are you?" or something like that ... Omg i loved that! im so stealing your line Let go find another text from a fwb, and give you some more ideas, lol.. brb... hmm, not too many lately... "kissing you was delicious. Can't wait to see you again"..... She sounds like an awesome FWB alexlakeman! im so lovin the suggestions so keep them coming!
Author guarded Posted September 12, 2010 Author Posted September 12, 2010 You probably shouldn't send him any nipple shots (or any visible muff) But if you send a pic, that is clearly you, taken from an odd-seeming angle, without crossing the plane of any of the above, then take your best shot (in more ways than one). im so with you there!
Raderick Posted September 12, 2010 Posted September 12, 2010 and iphone's dont send photos so i guess i have to send it via email.. do i then send him an sms to say i sent him a little something? You actually can! PM and I'll help you out.
alexlakeman Posted September 12, 2010 Posted September 12, 2010 lol. most men would right? out of curiousity have u ever sent one back? haha i guess so! well it was literally in and out so you couldn't really count that right? Omg i loved that! im so stealing your line She sounds like an awesome FWB alexlakeman! im so lovin the suggestions so keep them coming! LOL, I send back naughty texts all the time.. I initiate a lot of the time as well.. Yeah, I guess a woman reaches a point that she is not so worried about "what will he think of me?", and she does what turns her on, just like a guy does what turns himself on, ie her texting, she is not worried about, "what would he think?" ... I've gotten some semi naughty pics at the inception of a relationship, and they weren't nakeds, ie : Pic of her lieing down in bed showing her tummy, undies and legs... her lieing down side ways pic of her from waist down, showing her thigh, butt (in underwear), and legs... pic of her chest through some sexy t shirt, with nips stabbing through the shirt, lol... it's all good.. I didn't think it was "morally" wrong, LOL...
curlygirl40 Posted September 13, 2010 Posted September 13, 2010 My best friend is a guy. A BAND GUY. He has girls throwing themselves at him all of the time. When I started to date again (after an 18 year marriage) a guy I met online asked me to send him a 'booby pic'. I wouldn't do it! But I asked my guy friend what he thought of that trend and he texted me exactly this: 'When you're in a relationship, a naked pic via text is sexy. With a stranger? Creepy' Great advice I will take with me! Not that I would be tempted. And I hate to say he has forwarded me pics that he has received from these 'groupies'. I've seen too many 'boobie pics' from him to count. So yes if you do send a naked pic to someone you're not in a relationship with and would trust, assume lots of other people will see it.
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