blackorchid Posted September 6, 2010 Posted September 6, 2010 Okay, I know the obvious, short answer would be: go out and meet new people but I need more info than that. I have taken myself out of the game so to speak for a while and now I really think I want to start dating. My identity is anonymous on here so I'm going to be very honest. I have never been in a serious relationship, all though I have dated many people in the past. I'm 21 years old, female, live alone, and am not just looking for a fling. I want to know what I should do to, I dunno attract a guy and not give off the wrong vibe. I think sometimes I send all the wrong signals and/or make a bad impression. I'm ready to make some serious lifestyle changes if need be. I'm not desperate or anything. I'm sorry if this is kind of vague. Help me?!
L3stat Posted September 6, 2010 Posted September 6, 2010 21 single female living alone:laugh: you have alot going for yourself. When you go out dont guys approach you? Put on your best im avaliable but im not sluty or easy outfit on and go somewhere public no a bar or a club or anything just somewhere casual park, mall, movies, etc etc and guys will come. If your to shy then theres online dating where you can make a profile about yourself, take a few pics, and guys will come, either way just keep an eye out for the users good luck!!
jamesum Posted September 6, 2010 Posted September 6, 2010 Dont you go to school? School is like the best place to find a guy. All you have to do is chat up people and one will catch on.
MrNate Posted September 6, 2010 Posted September 6, 2010 21 single female living alone:laugh: you have alot going for yourself. When you go out dont guys approach you? Put on your best im avaliable but im not sluty or easy outfit on and go somewhere public no a bar or a club or anything just somewhere casual park, mall, movies, etc etc and guys will come. If your to shy then theres online dating where you can make a profile about yourself, take a few pics, and guys will come, either way just keep an eye out for the users good luck!! I was going to say something similar to this. Just wear something nice, go outside and exist. The rest should take care of itself.
Author blackorchid Posted September 6, 2010 Author Posted September 6, 2010 Thank you all for your responses. Yeah, the problem is I'm taking a semester off to chill out and work in my dad's office. So, most of my days I spend with my dad (no hot single dudes come in his office). I'm looking for another job to maybe get me around more people. Guys do approach me at times, but I'm usually not interested in the ones that approach me. I will stop complaining about that because one day I'll be old and haggard and happy if anyone hits on me. I think I posted this in the wrong forum. Oh well. I am extremely shy! That's a big problem, especially around guys I am actually interested in. I don't know how to calm myself down and I really would rather not join an online dating site. Will think about it though. How is living alone a plus? lol
Fouts Posted September 6, 2010 Posted September 6, 2010 Do you have any friends? If you do, network, network, network. When I want to date, my friends are constantly fixing me up. Eventually you'll hit it off with someone. Btw, shy is a good quality
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